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It seemed that I was able to tell their past very well which impressed them even more and they keenly sought information about their future.

There were some etiquette to foretelling the future such as death or any other major life event.

reading the palm

Although I was reading in context of what I had learnt from some of the books, I would not invent or create any stories but interpreting the lines as they are seen.

Eventually, I was aware of the power that I had wielded and how much people depended on this kind of reading that I became afraid.

I stopped reading palmistry altogether.

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Going back to that exciting and unbearable relationship I was in, I continued to discover all I could about relationships in various books and reading horoscopes.

I found uncanny resemblance to my personality and the relationship match description that the horoscopes told me.

horoscope for relationships

I continued on this path for a while trying to get a handle on the relationship and my inner feelings.

When reading the horoscopes on a daily basis I would begin to understand how much empowerment that the writers have over their readers and continuously reminded me of how I got into palmistry.

I decided that the horoscopes will not solve my own real problems and I needed to take control over myself and stop depending on words that are generic and meaningless in the true sense.

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It took me a great deal of time to recover from that relationship and as you can imagine it didn’t work.

I learnt many things from that relationship but more importantly I learnt how to deal with my own feelings and could see why it had its ups and downs.

We were simply not compatible and all of our expectations for each other were very different. We were in completely two different wavelengths.

couple not compatible

I had often wandered what it would have been like had I not lifted myself out of that emotional burden and been myself.

I compared myself with some men who would compromise and rather overlook their indifferences just to make it work.

It’s a simpler task to take this path since the other path is more of an internal struggle and a move towards enlightenment.

However, an internal struggle must be equally met with another individual who can truly appreciate the inner complexity and beauty of a human being and learns to appreciate it rather than fight it. Without this kind of thinking a couple’s relationship will lead to many acceptances and compromises otherwise it will simply break down.

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Being of a free spirit and also of deep analytical mind, I am the kind of person that explores and challenges the inner self and doesn’t want to settle into anything less with the mind continuously absorbing, processing and learning while trying to reach new heights of understanding and awareness.

being free inside and out

This can be true of most other people too, it’s a question of what we want out of life.

Although it can be argued that all of us have a deep inner void inside of us that pulls us towards the opposite sex.

Contentment within comes in many forms and it isn’t always obvious that to achieve the right balance requires the presence of a partner in ones lives.

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Going back to the question of compatibility, all I can say is that if you rely on a few parameters that define what a compatible relationship is, then we are missing the important point.

are we compatible

The complexity of any relationship is exacerbated by personal tastes, habits, feelings, principles, scruples and many other variables.

At the end of the day, one shouldn’t rely on the compatibility scores on a dating site, but more on the ‘chemistry’ of the relationship.

Having said that, it’s important to understand that chemistry arises only after you are involved in a relationship and your actions, habits and feelings are reflective of the entire relationship.

You continuously dig deep within yourself to understand the causes of your behavior and you will find it within yourself how it affects the relationship with each other.

You may think on the outset that a relationship looks bad on paper ie. compatibility mismatch between age, race etc. but you will only truly know if you go headlong into a relationship with that person.

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