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Part of our psychological make up allows us to use the power of the mind to create and play fantasies within our heads with so much clarity and realism that we can almost attain a feeling of euphoria.

This perhaps could be the cause of most our troubled relationships that we witness all around us.

Men have a tendency to go for something almost unattainable, their interest in women appears to be quite superficial ie. looks, body shape etc.

Romanticism and love seems to be some kind of a godly experience that is not part of the mind set used in their common daily activities.

Hence when a man sees something of beauty, they can feel a shift in their state of mind that touches on their fantasy.

When this happens the feeling of uncontrollable tension and emotion brings with it an escape into another world that can be irresistible.

It is possibly this state of mind that everyone ultimately strives for and probably the reasons for all the intake of drugs and intoxication.

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Now that we have established a connection of why men unwittingly get manipulated easily, we can see why there may be some hesitation and withdrawals by men from the game of love and sex.

The fear of putting yourself in that state of mind can leave you very helpless and vulnerable to other people, who wittingly or unwittingly can take full advantage of.

The woman can control the situation in every way she can and can use sex as a weapon to exercise that power.

Some men often make the mistake that she is not interested but that is exactly what she wants you to think based on your current behavior.

It is also the reason why there maybe confusing signals of sex that arises in relationships and can land us in courts.

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Although the ‘chase’ is not a bad thing providing it is not exploited with ill intent of simply acquiring gifts, lavishes of attention and other materialistic goods.

It is definitely immoral to have someone chase with no real-intention of ever fulfilling the desires of the other person.

Although there have been cases where a man may have persevered sufficiently enough to convince the woman of his suitability as a mate.

One big factor that comes about not necessarily through the aspect of manipulation but from the way the relationship evolves.

Let’s say a man is interested in a woman he then chooses to pursue this woman as he finds her very desirable.

Depending on the mindset of the woman, she may rebuff his advances purely because there is no real interest from her side.

She may find herself in a situation where the man is very persistent and is longing for her.

In this case, she may unwittingly ward off further advances and thus aggravate the situation where the man does not see any real need to stop.

It is at this point, where a woman can be endowed with sufficient power to manipulate the situation to her needs.

She can clearly see that she has the upper hand in this situation and easily make demands on the other person.

If her real intentions are to simply acquire worldly goods and satisfy her own desires, then clearly she is self-centered and turning the situation to her advantage. Some may construe this to be a manipulative act whereas other may see it differently.

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Woman of this kind use their sexuality well and would go as far as prolonging the sexual act or giving in easily, because they feel that the act of a sexual conquest by the man would somehow diminish their power.

The problem is that the other person may not have any ill intentions whatsoever.

Often, it takes a very simple action to find out if she belongs to this camp. Instead of showering her with gifts, you simply rebuff her and withdraw a little and you will immediately see a different personality.

Some of these woman may not be fully aware of their actions as explained earlier because they are too deep rooted in their own little world and you are just another entity in her world.

These women, because of their selfish and often conceited nature can surprisingly drive men insane because of a seemingly lack of interest.

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There are subtle differences in how she will say things that you will need to be aware of.

For example, when a woman says, “Just to show how much I care about you, I don’t really mind if you don’t succeed in this venture”.

To some people this may sound perfectly acceptable, but if you were to read more into this sentence, you can often find a different angle to it also.

Here, she is making a reference to herself not about you and she is stating what she would feel about this.

To her, the opinions of what she says and thinks matter but not yours.

A more sincere saying would be in the line “I know how passionate you feel about this venture and I truly hope it works out”.

Here the reference is on you and not her, which means she is thinking of you. You can usually find these usage of words during conversation which will be tell tale signs of the persons real character and hence intentions.

Women who understand this well and men who are unfortunately not as astute can fall prey to this trap and not fully understand what is going on.

However, for the woman that feel they are confident enough to exercise this kind of power they have to realize it can be ultimately damaging to their relationships.

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