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Actually those answers also happen to come from the basic core fundaments that we talked about earlier.
In order for us to survive and have children that will grow to expand our genes, the basic necessities for food, shelter and continued sustenance need always need to be in place.
Without these basic needs the relationship is always on shaky ground.
wealth can attract women
Women will generally look for men who are financially stable, can provide shelter, is in good health and confident in their outlook in life.
How this is perceived from each woman can differ but the fundamentals are the same.
I mentioned confident outlook, which is as equally important because it provides a sense of safety and security for the woman and they can feel reassured that the man has that capacity to meet the future challenges.
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Today men hold various jobs, positions and seats of power and the type of women they attract will largely depend on the woman’s perception.
However, it can be argued that the geographical proximity of men and women in different towns, cities and cultures can have a significant bearing on the male-female pair which come into fruition.
For example in Los Angeles where Hollywood is based, the thinking of men and women can be much influenced by the primary business of that location.
hollywood glamor can be enticing
Women may chase after producers, directors and actors and be dismissive of other professions and this is further exacerbated by many people who flock to the city for that reason.
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However, some places can be seriously disadvantaged for women due to the nature of the economy.
For example, Santa Cruz with its wonderful beaches is home to mainly retired people and many students.
where you live can matter
Women who are looking for a serious man can have a hard time finding suitable mates primarily because of the lack of professional jobs in that town.
On the other hand men may find the task easier but nevertheless the ‘confident outlook’ living in Santa Cruz may not be rosy for most, especially if you are in a profession where jobs are lacking in that area.
Inevitably people of that town take up jobs which are less than their ability in order to stay in the town and have means of survival.
The forward thinkers will most likely move to greener pastures such as the big city where the choices will be greater and more readily available to them.
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Online dating such as Jumpdates.com has helped many individuals to find their partners irrespective of the geographical distance, however, the need for a forward looking outlook in life is still very important to most women.
Today we have a class system that is broken down to only a few categories by the media, but there are many more that is not usually discussed as it can complicate the issue and bring controversy over race, religion etc.
social class system
If one were to examine couples and how they are similar or dissimilar we will almost surely find at least one kind of factor that is unique to the couple.
One finds that they usually have very similar backgrounds in one or some of the factors such as age, family upbringing, wealth, job types and more.
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The society we live in is very complex and we all have a wider set of choices when it comes to finding our partner.
The wealthy nations have provisions to meet the demands of our core basic needs we discussed earlier and so our choices are now limited to what kind of individuals would make satisfactory mates.
Based on how we have grown through childhood, the kind of parents we have, the core principles and values we place will ultimately determine whom we pick for a life-long partner.
relationships are complex
Both men and women in a couple relationship will struggle to accommodate each other and provided we have covered the fundamental basic needs of living, we are now set with a fresh set of challenges and this is how two people can get along harmoniously and aim towards a long and lasting relationship.
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