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You may find that the woman may give you the cold treatment from what you thought was a genuinely friendly remark to start a conversation.

Again this can be put down to our biological makeup.

If the woman is fairly attractive, you can be rest assured that a majority of the times she is dismissing many men that approach her almost on a daily basis.

These approaches are all from men who may come across her as creepy and expecting one thing from her and nothing else.

Here you are at a clear advantage and you need to understand this and have your wits about you.

You clearly need to get over that hurdle of ‘men’ that she dismisses so quickly and show your other self.

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To do this, you need to win her confidence and this can be done in many ways and you will need to be creative in your approach.

Do not think about sending flowers, cards or being a secret admirer, this will not work because you will need to get her attracted to you as a person.

Some of the most trivial things that can happen between a man and woman have been the deciding factor for some woman to instantly fall for you.

Usually a helping hand being a good listener will get you a long way, try to find out any opportunity where you can help her in some way.

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I was recently in a job where I spoke with a woman we were sharing an office together along with other men.

She appeared cold and didn’t want to chat, so I once decided to struck a conversation with her and ask her how she was doing, which was basic rudimentary talk that I would do with anyone.

Now she is completely into me and have quizzed me time and time again why I opened up the conversation with her that time.

I am sad to say, I am not attracted to this person although she is attractive herself and having a hard time trying to get her to see otherwise.

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Other times where I was attracted to some women, I ended up getting the cold shoulder treatment from women that I did like.

The important thing to remember is that women can sense when you are into her and the laws of attraction can either work for you or against you.

Try to keep yourself as disinterested in her and let her become attracted to you.

This brings me to the next part where you do things such as helping or some other task that wins her confidence in you.

If you studied my other article on ‘science and biology of ..’, you will see that specific personality traits in men is what women are looking to.

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If you become disgruntled and show defeatism too easily, you will not attract these kind of women.

Consistency in your behavior which shows integrity and honor are highly sought after characteristics by women because they are biologically wired that way.

Good looks and a smooth talker are just not sufficient. In time you will learn what attracts women more.

As mentioned earlier, your first task is to get her attracted to you and the next task of asking for a date couldn’t be easier.

By making yourself challenging to her and having the above qualities mentioned above puts you in a clear advantage.

Unfortunately, for some men the next stumbling block can happen here also.

You clearly made yourself desirable and the woman is interested in you and you are now toying with the idea of how to ask her for a date.

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