Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 19
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The trick is to keep an open mind before you draw any conclusion that may lead you to resent the person.
Give the other person the ‘benefit of the doubt’.
It takes strong determination and courage to step up to the plate when you are faced with negative actions by another fellow human.
it takes courage to handle negative emotions
But this is truly a test of your character to face the music and see it exactly as it is from your shoes.
Do not jump to conclusion when tricky and uncomfortable situations arise. Listen, learn and understand what is being said and then keep an open mind surmise afterwards when you are free from distraction after the event.
You will notice that when you see famous politicians being interviewed, they almost always manage to keep their calm and wits about them when sensitive or controversial subjects arise.
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Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 20
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In concluding remarks about resentment, we should always try to understand the situation that may lead us incorrectly to a feeling of resentment.
Today we are not likely to get along with everyone and it would be difficult to do so but we can however understand what are the cause of our ill-feelings and resentment that can upset and have a damaging consequence to our relationships with people.
we are all very different from each other
One must understand that each one of us are wired differently and do not assume that everyone has your opinions or beliefs.
First remove any bias, prejudice of the subject and then address any personality hindrance that goes in the way of this, eg. being lazy then look at the problem objectively.
You may find that the other person is not able to see beyond their nose, which is ok.
If you have tried and helped others as a result and no improvement made, then you have to decide if you can live with this or not.
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Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 1
We have all flared up at some point during a heated conversation or argument with someone or something and when we look back we believe we were within our rights.
Everyone deals with difficult and stressful times in many different ways.
we all have animal behaviour inside of us
We can talk incessantly on this subject and figure out the correct and best approach for dealing with situations like this.
Before we can even begin to apply some of the principles of the correct behavioral measures when handling situations such as this, we must first understand the beast inside all of us.
This simply means we must look deep into our own personality and assess what triggers us into this often uncontrollable emotional state of mind.
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Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 2
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Often our personality is described by others with terms such as ‘you are stubborn’, ‘lazy’, ‘cold’ etc. but this kind of categorization doesn’t really help us to address the problem effectively.
Labeling in this manner without having some definitions or clear examples are a sure sign to continuous protracted arguments with your partner or loved ones.
clarity in your message is important to communication
There have been many books written on a specific human flaw that is lacking in some of us and this is assertion.
The books go to great lengths describing how to be more assertive with others without dwelling into the root cause of the problem and how some of us came to be this way.
Often the cause or lack of assertion is swept away by the explanation of childhood experiences where our fears usually stem from and carried into the adulthood.
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Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 3
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There are no magical solutions to solve our day to day problems and being assertive is by no means the only corrective behavior that will bring harmony to our lives.
The complex nature of our personalities and how we interact with other people is exceptionally diverse and there have been great thinkers of our time such as Sigmund Freud and many publications and works have been written on this subject.
we are all unique individuals
I believe it is up to us as individuals to look intelligently at our own unique situations and utilize our own knowledge and information available to us to sort out our own personal problems.
The capacity to solve our own problems and at the same time improve our lives will also depend on having a good body of knowledge in certain areas.
Top search engines such as Google have made information very accessible to all of us.
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