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Although God has given us the capacity to dream, he has also provided us with able bodies and mind to take action. You will need to separate fact from fiction, in other words you can dream as long as you want of the ‘night in shining armour’, or that beautiful girl walking up to you and seducing way. You can’t dismiss the possibility that this could happen but don’t depend on it too much and for too long.

Getting the Dates You Want - part 2

Take a good look at yourself and ask yourself if other people apart from your close friends and families will have any idea what you are like under that facade of yours. Don’t expect others to adore you or expect you to be so and so just because you feel they must. You need to demonstrate your worthiness to other people, in the same way that you need to prove your worth to your boss at work. We have discussed many topics on the subject of breaking the ice and when you do break the ice, you need to swiftly prove that you are a decent person that anyone can date and feel comfortable. This immediately implies that you need to be considerate and accepting of the other person you are talking to.

There are many books that talk about how to break the ice and what follows, but the best advice is just be yourself and let the conversation take its natural path. We will be introducing more articles on these subjects to arm all those singles out there and make sure they build enough confidence and courage to get the dates they want and the lives they want. In the meantime, please go ahead and do some searches in our search box on the right and look up hundreds of articles already posted here on these topics.

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You will remember one of our recent articles which talks about how to get more dates, simply by meeting more people..The trick is to be around people to get more dates

All it takes is to get yourself into many gatherings, events and anywhere where there are plenty of people. However, for some it doesn’t stop there. If you are confident about approaching new people and chatting to them then your chances of getting dates will increase considerably. There are groups of people, men in particular who are seeking more advice on this subject since they are not exactly the Don Juan in this department. Here we talk a bit more about this.

Getting the Dates You Want - part 1

The first task as you can guess is to meet as many people as you can and then to get dates. You have crossed the first important hurdle of where you are presenting yourself to all these nice ladies or gentlemen. Keep in mind that first impressions can count a lot, so be wary about your appearance and if you are a man, try to get a woman’s point of view on your dress attire. Surprisingly ladies also need some input in this area and they can ask opinion of several friends or relatives to get more insight into their dress sense.

Your next aim is to dismiss some of the myths that has be perpetrating around society with regards to finding mates. These are stuff like ‘love at first sight’ or ‘mr or mrs is waiting around the corner’ and believing in destiny.

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8. Express your love by making ‘Love Vouchers’ with promises that can be as mundane as ‘ I will wash dishes…voucher valid for one week’ to outright sexy that says ‘a night of your wildest dreams…valid for one night when you are in the mood’.

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9. Go to the outskirts of your town or place and where there is lesser light pollution. Take a rug and lots of food and wine to enjoy star gazing together. Don’t forget the warm clothes

10. Send romantic text messages that you have created or lines sent by a personality with his or her name on it. No forwards please as they are a total put off

11. Eat oysters, chocolates, asparagus, honey to get into the snuggling mood as all these are aphrodisiacs

12. Play romantic board games together which you can design well in advance

13. Get your heart rate up by indulging in some physical workouts like swimming or ice skating and let the ‘feel good hormone’ get more activated

14. If you haven’t proposed to her, get down on your knees with a ring and a rose held between your teeth

No need to bother about why Valentine’s Day is celebrated or this historical day. Simply enjoy this day with your beloved and make it most memorable.

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Valentine’s Day is accepted as the official day of Love. Whether you are single or in a relationship, 14th Feb is the day to celebrate love. Candy, flowers and teddies are gifts that have become the norm. Be different in your expression of love this year.

Top 14 dating ideas for Valentines day

1. Love inspires creativity. Write a poem, make a handmade card and express how you feel

2. Cook something special for the two of you and spell ‘I love you’ on it. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach

3. If you are too shy to express your emotions to him/her, get the weight of your heart by sending a card that reads ‘your valentine’ along with a purple rose to express ‘love at first sight’

4. Get adventurous! Arrange a surprise of an activity that partner always wanted to do. Surprises make the heart grow fonder

5. Book the presidential suite at the best hotel if you can afford it, dress for the romantic dinner and order two rounds of dessert

6. Pamper yourselves by visiting a spa together

7. If you are single take a long drive with bunch of single friends or alone, splurge money but do not sit in a corner or clean your wardrobe

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You will be able to gauge yourself according to other people in that party and dress appropriately. The point is, you will make an effort to look at least half-decent for the occasion. So, instead of winding up in a confused whirlpool of a state prior to the date, the first task is to train your mind that you are just going to any of these parties.

Stop the urge to ask for advice from other people on what you should do or shouldn’t do during the date. Other people love to poke their noses and want to know all the juicy details of your date and in their worldly wisdom give you advice that is sure to succeed. Remember, your aim is to turn this date into ‘not a date’. Do dress up as you if you were going to any other occasion and that’s it, then leave the event to unfold by itself. You will find that towards the end of the date, your dating partner will be positively captivated by you. The secret is that whenever you want something to go without flaw, it usually doesn’t but when you don’t care for it so much, it turns out to be better than you expected. The same thing applies when you are dating, so go ahead and give it a try, date without thinking of it as a date.

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