Updated: 10th September, 2015

Commitment phobia in India has been a result of heavy social and cultural shifts in the minds of many young Indians living today. The boom in internet and increase in earning-power have played a crucial role in the mindsets of many young singles, both male and female. The primary one being that one has so much more freedom that making a decision has become harder and harder and the feeling is that the grass maybe green on the other side. Read more about it from the interesting article in TimesOfIndia and our article below.

Running away from commitment in a relationship is common in the USA and other western countries. Marry at late 30’s to ensure you know personally before tying the knot or at least test many before you meet the right person and make up your mind.

On the flip side India has been known for their strong social values, grand wedding and rituals. This has also been celebrated by many Hollywood celebrities to ensure they get the luck in the divorce capital of the USA.

Relationship phobia in India | Love life | Desi Romance

However, this trend is changing in India young generation especially men from metros like Mumbai, Delhi, Pune and from India silicon valley Bangalore (many other top cities) don’t want to take this responsibility in the early age - and especially not arranged by their parents.

Relationship, wedding ceremonies and romance have been the hallmark of Indian movies for the past 100 years. But, this is also taking a new turn, the latest release “Shuddh Desi Romance” (Pure Indian Romance) movie cleanly narrates new GEN Y love in India as how the trend has changed in the past 10 years from commitment focused generation to pro live-in relationship supporting India.

This has been a debate from time know as why this generation Y is running away from commitment and many social activists are putting their head in research and surveys.

Here are theories floating around for Commitment phobia in India Gen Y

1. More exposed and exchange of western culture as India being the market for many
companies and India is one of the cheapest manpower providers of many American
IT and ITES companies. This brings exposure from other parts of the world and their social structure.

2. Indian GEN Y is more independent and self dependent than some of the previous generations. Financial independence has changed how young India make daily decisions.

3. Critics are also saying that it is just in their mind as what they see outside India do not exist in India as they have a strong social bearing and no need for GEN Y to become afraid of commitment.

No matter what people are saying, the fact is that it is getting more and more evident and even the Apex court of law has also legalized the live-in relationship in India.

Tags: commitment, commitment phobia, freedom in relationships, India, social cultural changes

In search for new dating sites of 2013 to find local singles? Be aware from the sites that sends emails to their members to check out the new hot chicks in town which turn out to be the marketing gimmick as you won’t find the same profile when you use the search feature once you have joined their site. Strange but true.

Updated: 10th September, 2015

Read more on the profile fabrication of 2015 and how to alleviate this problem here.

According to the recent news on Sky News, one of out five dating profile is fabricated but the question is what are they fabricating and why?

dating profile fabrication on free dating sites

Here is how the fabrication on free online dating profile is happening on two ends

1. Registered user do not mention their correct age but, this is not new. According to latest survey 18% online singles admit that they don’t tell their right age when they create an online dating profile.

2. Study also finds that the website owners are sending dented painted profiles and when we say dented painted profiles it mean profile picture of one user, age of another, location of someone else and many distorted facts to make profile searching very frustrating. Not only do you have to filter through profiles that do not meet your criteria but you also have to contend with fake profiles.

There are plenty of sites that are practicing this to get more and more singles visit their site time and time again. Sad part of this is happening all over the world, we test for some of the Indian dating sites and found that this is very much evident there.

The next time you join any free dating sites make sure you check out the few profiles and when you get newsletters check out the search feature of that dating site and search for the same profile if you don’t find that profile then you know what to do!!

Tags: how to avoid, profile fabrication, scammers, screening bad dating profiles, spammers

Updated: 15th September, 2015

Teen life, the most happening phase of your life where everything is new and excites your central nervous system. This is the age where you have less responsibility and have the license to do whatever you want.

Teen life brings all the physical and psychological changes that differentiates your gender and you tend to experience an attraction towards the opposite sex. This attraction results in teenage sex almost 50% of the time according to the report by the Center of Disease Control and Prevention.

Teen love - Crazy things at college

Here are your top super crazy thing for college love

• Confess your love, falling in love with your professor is common but, most do not find the courage to express it (friendly way) to the professor as it could bring much trouble to your world.

• One night stand in his / her bedroom. Getting caught by her/ his dad makes it more exciting as the adrenaline keeps pushing you to the extreme.

• Most singles in colleges feel shy while proposing to him/her, how about doing it whenever you are drunk. This is could ease your pain and giving you an escape door and if there is a denial from the other side, both of you can still be friends.

• You can also think a bit creatively as doing a protest against your lover saying “You can’t love. All you need is some friends and signboard, don’t forget to give your friend the treat they deserve.

Teen life is full of craziness, add your ideas and experience of teen dating in the comment box below.

Tags: college life, college sex, crazy teen life, teenage love, teenage sex

Updated: 11th September, 2015

There is an old saying in Eastern parts of the world “You fight with someone you love”. This is true because you care for your lover and can’t see anything bad happen to him or her. Being in love and receiving love is the most fantastic feeling in the universe. However, being alone in love can be extremely difficult.

Patching up with your love is not easy especially when both of you have egotistic problems which can turn worse if neither one does anything about it.

Check out these innovative ways to patch up like nothing happened!!

How to Patch Up - Innovative ways after a fight

* Plan for a surprise dinner and take help from mutual friends. Don’t talk about your fight, behave like nothing happened. However, at the end don’t forget to say that you would like to forget what happened and we both should learn a lesson. Most of the time this will work as neither one of you are looking for a blame game but, for a perfect happy ending.

* Do some brainstorming and take the help of your friends that are most of the time are the reasons to fight. We all like to receive gifts and if this is from someone we love and make us feel special. Gift alone would not do the trick you need to think of extra special messages that convey all you want to say with your feelings.

*Are you good at performing arts it can be singing, dancing, playing guitar or anything else. Music do not need any language and it has the power to connect hearts. If you know each other you should know by now her favorite song or something she would love you to see. Use the talent you have to bring back your love life back on the track.

All these tricks will only work if you had a casual fight but, if the problem is really big then it is better to rethink about where you both are and whether to continue and be happy in spirit.

Tags: after a fight, doing the right thing, how to make up, making up

Niche dating sites, paid or free are becoming hot favorite amongst online singles. It has all the good reason to be the number one choice as it gives them the opportunity to find the like minded singles that has more compatibility over singles they meet on other top free dating sites. They share almost all the details on these sites and at time some are very confidential.

trap of free niche dating sites

But, have you ever thought if these sites are safe? Are they using your profile information to gain business and other financial aims? Or simply displaying you as HIV niche dating site member? This is a serious concern and one of the leading STD (sexually transmitted diseases) and HIV niche dating site Successful Match has been found doing such activities that compromise the confidential info from Positivesingles.com with their affiliates and partner sites HIVGaymen.com and STDHookup.com.

News published by USNews.com talks to two single ladies whose identity has been compromised. This news has been reported by Consumeraffairs.com and weau.com.

Selling or displaying confidential data for business purpose is totally unethical, it is not that all top dating sites are safe, don’t forget that POF (plenty of fish) got hacked in 2012. But, this was unintentional by owner and it can happen to any top paid of free dating sites.

Here is your checklist to choose a trustworthy and reliable dating sites.

1. Check out the age of the site, you can simply do it by going to whois.net and typing the name of the site. This will show the age of the name of the site. Those who prohibited the age are certainly less trustworthy.

2. Check out a few profiles on the site as this gives you more insight on what kind of profiles are there on that dating site. Even if you find less profiles more importantly it has to be genuine and not fake.

3. If the site is paid or ask any donation, check out is the site is secure or not. Site should show a secure payment symbol and must have “https://” in the address bar. You can also look for a positive or negative reviews of online dating sites before you sign up and become the member of the site.