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The burning factions of love
Wednesday, April 25th, 2012
It is without doubt that love is a great force that moves us to do greater things but we also know that it can consume the very heart and soul and leave us wandering aimlessly through the plains of the earth. Could there be just the right balance that keeps us engaged with excitement and passion but not lean sufficiently towards the tipping point. What are the burning factions of love?
The burning factions of love
It would appear that a majority of us would like to have some control of our own feelings and thoughts and why shouldn’t we be? After all, by exercising such control we are able to do many things diligently without offending others and still manage to get on in life. By selecting a dating partner there are many who diffuse or channel what would be considered as ‘inappropriate’ energy towards them and find some solace and comfort within. However, is that also fair to yourself and your partner?
Perhaps we are all wired in the same way and the test of our success and failure on earth is directly proportional to the control and restraint we have over ourselves. Then again, why do we need to do this, since many have followed their deep seated desires to achieve greatness in this society, or have they? Here lies the difference. Our own mental conjugation of love determines who we truly are and how we perceive the outside world to be. Never forget that.
Although all humans have a great capacity for love, we still find ourselves in the shifting sands of time aimlessly and hopelessly peering into life without a clue. We rely on our instincts, judgements and advice to give more meaning to our lives but yet we find ourselves how empty all this can be. The torrential love affair that one has with oneself needs dissipating and the burning factions of love can be no more.
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What to Wear on Your Date Night - It’s Your Confidence
Tuesday, April 24th, 2012
Online single are always puzzled on what to wear on their date night. What make them attractive? What outfit will give their personality a different and unique look from others? One thing is very much true is that there are possibilities that what singles wear on their dating night can enhance their personality but it is also true that it cannot change them from their true personality.
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Getting well dressed up is certainly an important part of dating preparations but, the most important part is to have the confidence in your own self which many singles forget to carry on their dating night. If you are not confident, you tend to make a whole lot of mistakes like avoiding healthy discussions about who you are, what you want in life, what love means to you and what are your expectations from this relationship? Forgetting about this can lead you to avoid important eye contact if will not carry the self-believe and confidence in your dating partner.
Being nervous is not too bad and it can happen to any one. But, getting too withdrawn and not come out of your shell can also spoil the whole date night. This is where extra care should be taken and to follow your instincts. If you feel that you are not getting enough ideas to talk about try to talk something both of you have in common or some common interest. If you have been matched by online dating sites then this gives you good opportunity to discuss what the dating website found common in you.
There are never any situations that does not leave the door open that gives you an opportunity to start discussions, but you need to find that opportunity. Comment on this article and share your stories as to what you think one should do especially when one feels somewhat low on the date night.
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Relationship is a two way thing - perk it up with some exciting tips
Tuesday, April 24th, 2012
The first date is an important one for many of us but yet we limit the number of venues or events for this eventful time. For example, we usually do one of these things; movies, dinner date, walk in the park or sit down at a coffee house. Although, there is absolutely nothing wrong with these type of events especially if you are meeting up for the first time, there is a whole world of possibilities that you could be missing out and enhance your relationship.
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Remember not to take dating events as simply just another event, think of it as a way of getting intimately close to your dating partner. What makes your partner tick, what makes you tick and what events could bring out this information and make the whole event fun and a memorable one. Of course, it has been said that if couples do like each other, the actual event or venue becomes secondary to their own presence with each other. This may be true, but if you think about it, how well do you know this person, you may have a tingling sensation when you are with this person but is that enough?
The natural design for couples dating is to use a combination of their heads and heart when it comes to summing up each other. If the focus is too much on the feelings then we could be in for a torrential roller coaster of a ride where we literally fall off from the other end! If we keep our feelings in check and make the practicalities of life as an important factor in determining the partner’s suitability then we have a balanced approach and to all intents and purposes this is probably the correct approach.
Think about it, if you are finding frivolously wandering through life going aimlessly from one partner to another, then something is amiss. Either you have your standards way up high and you need to appreciate the real facts in life and perhaps focus more on your partner rather than what you want. If you have a lack of partners, this could be due to the lack of communication between the opposite sex and not being able to go deep enough with anyone about your own personal feelings and thoughts.
Whatever the reasons could be, it is always a good idea to take the emphasis away from ‘you’ and concentrate on the greater and broader things in life that awaits you. Next time you go out on a date, try to think outside of the box and instead of what you can get out of it, see what you can give back.
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Essential gender criterias in the dating game - part 4
Monday, April 23rd, 2012
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A woman who is in her early 40s will have some initial difficulty in attracting younger men especially if they do not have the financial success that some men could compromise with. The assessment of personality in most cases by men do not come until they are well into the relationship. In this case, the relationship could have a stronger footing based on a union of trust and likeability rather than just on financial grounds. It could be the reason why many women in their late age do so much to look young and to attract the younger men into their lives. A majority of men would always like to leave the option of having offsprings with their partner and older women of 40s have a lower chance of conceiving as a result of menopause. Still this does not preclude many men to pursue older women who belong to that category but women need to exercise caution when selecting their partners. The men should be in the relationship for the long-haul unless the woman too is looking for a frivolous short-term fun and excitement.
For the average man and woman amongst us who are not fortunate enough to have the financial success that some enjoy the selection of dating partners becomes even more distinct and may even be construed as gender discriminatory. Older women will find it even harder to attract potentially young males and older men will continue to enjoy their prowess with younger ladies. Looks alone will not be sufficient for older ladies since younger men will also have more energy and enthusiasm for life and many older women will not be able to keep up.
Does one end up accepting their own fate in the gender cycle or does one always do something about it? I believe it depends on an individual’s personality and the way one goes about judging their own youth and old age. I am of the opinion that one should depart oneself from the constant thought of growing older and the negative thoughts that this brings. Life should be about learning, experiencing different things, excelling yourself in mind and physical activities. If you find yourself not having enough time during the day to do everything you want to do then you are probably heading in the right direction.
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Essential gender criterias in the dating game - part 3
Monday, April 23rd, 2012
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Make no bones about the fact that many women are intrigued and drawn by money and power and why shouldn’t they be? After all in this expensive world we live in, a stable husband with a roof over his head and the means to support a family through thick and thin are prime desirable qualities. Men who fall into this category can easily command the interest of many women he meets, but don’t forget that women too are also picky about the nature of the ‘beast’ within. Men’s personalities have to reflect strengths in many areas and in addition to a caring nature has the ability to stand independently in the face of adversity. This is why often ‘drive’ in a men is a very pleasing quality to women. Now, if you were to tip this role to the female side where they show similar traits of a man such as strength of character, good financial success etc. the view from a man’s side is very different.
Most men like to feel that they are the strongest of the genders and they will be the protectors and providers of the family and many women have no problems with this. However, when the situation is reversed as described above then some men will feel that their role is somewhat diminished and may even feel intimidated. See the Jumpdates article on ‘What it must be like to date a famous celebrity” to see some of the examples of relationship strains when two people of polarized wealth get together.
Related dating article - What must it be like to a date a famous celebrity? – Part 1
The question whether age differences matter between two couples depends on the situation and to much extent on the individuals themselves. Most women do not have any issues dating older men and their reasoning could be very different from one another. However, some of the most important factors tend to be the ‘intrigue and maturity’ as well as the financial power that the older man brings into the relationship. Plus the biological makeup of the man is such that they can continue to bear offspring well into their late age.
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