On my recent visit to India I decided to watch a movie, I have always been in love with Bollywood movies as they are inspired by true human emotions, love and romance. I checked the local listing and decided to watch a recent release “Barfi” – which is a name of some sweet.

Like all other Indian movies I was expecting it to be romantic as they were all famous for this. But, what I saw for the next two and half hour was completely unexpected and was very touching. What I saw was romance and love but not as glossy as other mainstream Bollywood movies. We can call it love at it’s purest of form. I could not understand a single word they we saying as it was in their language (Hindi). But, actually this was not a barrier.

Barfi is a simple love story of a mute and deaf guy named Barfi, played by Ranbir Kapoor and autistic girl Jhilmil (hope I spelled this right) played by Priyanka Chopra. It’s a story about their life, how they realize their love from staying apart and not saying a word about it each other.

As an autistic girl Jhilmil could not understand the state of mind she is going through and is love and on the other side Barfi knows what love is but could not speak it and more impotently cannot explain his true feelings to her.

But still both of them finally discover their love for one another through their eyes and actions. Barfi is a comedy drama and runs like this for two hours and 20 minutes but it hits you hard those who still think that you need to be physically attractive and compatible to have a happy love life. This leaves you thinking that do you really need the language to express your love. We are leaving those small opportunities in life to enjoy the pursuit of bigger fun and love actually lies in those small opportunities and you may miss it before you realize it.

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From two recent examples (don’t want to point fingers) from Facebook where a husband shared a picture on completion of five romantic years of their married life. This picture was taken on their wedding day with all the family members. What was surprising was he tagged all her family members but, not his wife. How embarrassing for him but how does one manage to make such a blunder.

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Another example was very similar, there is no special event like a marriage anniversary or birthday but a romantic husband writes his status thanking his wife for being by his side all these years, this is perfectly all right. However his wife does not even have a Facebook profile. Funny? We think it’s odd.

According to a recent survey by Zoook.com, it reveals that 81% of young adults use technology to communicate to their partner. This is fine but, 60% use social media to express their feeling in public which is a concern.. However, the 81% are worried about what their co-worker will think.

Here are Jumpdates’s views on this, social media is the biggest platform to connect with the loved ones and to know what’s happening in their lives but things like sharing romantic feelings, picture or something that only is appreciated by the two of you should not be a public affair. One should know where to cross the line between taste and boundaries when it comes to personal matters of the heart. Social media would love everything to come to the public light because it drives them more traffic in their way and increases their visibility.

Comment on this article and tell us how much is considered too much when it comes to sharing your romantic information with social media.

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Telecommunication has certainly revolutionized the way people connect to each other by shortening the geographical location and it doesn’t matter where you live as you can still stay in touch with your loved ones.

Companies like Apple, Google and other players that develop operating system platforms are constantly working on it to innovate something new that simplifies communication and to a large extent they can call themselves successful.

However, if some one says that these Smartphones are the biggest relationship killer of modern era then it’s not totally wrong. Our research involves human behavior with and without Smartphones that reveal astonishing results.

Here are some observations that you cannot deny.

1. When one partner is saying something the other is busy on a Smartphone creating a communication gap.

2. This communication gap further lowers trust and empathy level.

3. Strangers on first date talk more when they are without a Smartphone rather than with one.

4. Smartphones that open and create wider social aura but actually minimizing the close communication between two people.

Jumpdates is not against Smartphones, we actually have Jumpdates mobile dating app for Android and iPhone. However, the point is that too much of smartphone usage and especially usage at the wrong time and wrong place would certainly be a

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Yes, you read it correct, the recent example in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil where a woman is asking the government to stay away from her polygamist relationship with her partner. You would think that everyone would say no when it comes to sharing a partner for an intimate relationship, especially women.

This polygamist relationship is between a couple and a female friend of the male partner. All three of them are happy with this relationship and don’t want others to interfere as it’s none of their business.

Jumpdates did a research on this and found that these polygamist relationships are not new on earth as Kings in India used to have more than one queen at a time. They all used to stay together, there were no such problems and polygamist relationships were practiced (few in numbers) before 1955 when Indian parliament made an amendment to the Hindu marriage.

This shows that polygamist relationships are not new and they go back in history and we maybe seeing a revival. Are we on the verge of developing a new relationship trend amongst young generation and referred to it as GenNext?

Comment on this article and tell us your views on this type of relationship or what you like to predict about the future of relationships.

Reference -http://www.alternet.org/story/150877/a_feminist_polygamist

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Often you have heard men saying with lots the emotional content about the rift between partners and how they feel less attracted towards each other as they can never please their partner. But, there is another set of men who feel that too much of puppy love every time are also one of the factors that they feel less attracted towards their partner.

Quite strange is the fact about what makes your babe look sexy? The recent research has all the answers for this. There are two sets of couples one with no conflict and others with some degree of conflict were noticed and discussed in the study.

Men having conflict have accepted that when they fight they feel more attracted sexually towards their female partner as their female partner look more sexier to them when she shouts at him. On the other side men with no conflict situation does n’t seem to much attracted towards their female partner.

The female partners also shares the similar drive towards their men, few ladies also believe that after a stressful fight their sex drive work as a stress buster and they connect with more emotional zest.

As they say fighting is first indication of love and caring which is true here as you fight with whom you love. Love-fight –love seem to be the eco-system of every relationship and if you think deeply it happens with all the relationship on the earth.

Share your wonderful experiences with Jumpdates as to what you find your babe sexy and why?

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