Stuff you must know before dating – Part 6
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There are several qualities to address in addition to happiness mentioned earlier.
This includes confidence and self-esteem.
Do you have the confidence to tackle new things or are you content with the same routine day by day.
same old routine
Dating brings with it many unknowns and the lack of enthusiasm for trying new things can hinder a relationship and put you back on your old track where you feel defeated.
You need to feel confident and have the urge to engage in new activities which will boost your self-confidence and self-esteem.
As a consequence of this, you will also be projecting a personality on others that will lift you to new heights and you will achieve a real sense of joy.
It can be very enticing and also quite empowering.
Stuff you must know before dating – Part 7
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Having established a sense of a life and purpose through your own eyes, you will now want to get feedback from people you know.
One’s own opinion and thinking are not sufficient to get the whole picture and you need honest and sincere feedback from other people who know you well.
Ask your friends and get them to be truthful with you about your qualities and what it is you are lacking.
get feedback on your personality
Make it easy for them by asking them to point out your strengths first and then asking them in areas that you can improve upon.
It would be impossible to correct all your deficiencies and do not just focus on your good points.
Stuff you must know before dating – Part 8
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Ask them questions with regards to how you interact with other people.
Ask your close friends that you can be very open and honest with so you get an accurate picture of yourself.
Ask your family members too, although it can be tough to digest all the negative points about yourself.
how am i doing
Keep in mind that some people may deliberately take the opportunity to say something for their own gain.
It may be a tough pill to swallow but the insight you will get will help you tremendously and it can help you in many walks of life and not just dating.
I remember one time, when I was told quite rudely and abruptly that I had body odor but thinking back now, I was happy with the blunt honesty which allowed me to pay more attention to that since I can sweat a great deal in dancing.
Stuff you must know before dating – Part 9
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Having talked to many people, you will see some general trends that keep coming up repeatedly.
These are the areas that you may want to focus and correct.
improving oneself
Depending on what areas that you feel you should address, it may take a week or a lifetime to correct them.
Tackle some of the ones that you know can address and for the others at least be aware of it, so you give yourself the chance to correct it at every opportunity that arises down the line.
One can continue to pursue a life-long ambition to improve oneself but unfortunately no one will ever get there.
Unless you have some major shortcomings that stand in the way of dating, you should go out when you can and keep in mind of continuous self-improvement in the process.
Stuff you must know before dating – Part 10
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You need to have a few worldly things in place before you can embark on the dating journey.
Make sure that you are financially stable, because it can be an expensive business dating, you should have a stable place to live and have good access to public transport or your own car.
Next you can decide to liven up the clothes that you wear and it is always a good idea to get another opinion.
dressing well in dating
We sometimes make the mistake of buying clothes that do not have any dress sense but rather more comfortable to wear.
Depending on our body shapes and sizes we can always wear clothes that complement and bring out our own natural self and feel comfortable at the same time.
Good shoes play an important part in the overall appearance so make sure to have a good stock of them to choose from when match to your overall attire.
