Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 9
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It is for this reason alone where many couples will continue to struggle, have endless fights and never reach a compromise for a longer term solution.
Typically in situations like this, the relationship will suffer and ultimately deteriorate to the point of no return.
admitting fault and being honest
Most people are afraid to admit their own faults and on top of this feel compelled and comfortable in giving criticism to others.
One of the reasons for this stems from our own fears of showing weaknesses and this could imply a lack of self-confidence and the fear of being ridiculed.
If you notice and observe people, you may have come across people who are overly aggressive and are almost like ‘bullies’.
Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 10 >>>
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Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 10
<<< Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 9
One can easily develop resentment towards those groups of people but however, if you were to dig further, you will see that these individuals have deep seated problems of their own.
They fear being criticized themselves and instead choose to show a brash and bullish personality trait, that hide their true feelings.
bullies hide behind a weakness
Here is our first ‘clue’ on how resentment can come about in individuals.
A healthy and balanced life with the individual mentioned above will be an uphill battle because the person has not internalized the problem to the point where he/she can address it.
Often the arguments that start with this individual and loved one will end up with the other individual giving in to the arguments.
No real resolution will occur until this particular individual is able to cross the first hurdle of accepting the problem as it really is.
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How to add a good photo to your profile (part 1)
If you are using dating services photos are very important to your profile.
It’s often the first thing that other members look at before they proceed to look at the rest of your profile.
Therefore it is very important to put up a picture that is good that others will appreciate and more likely to send you messages.
a good photo in your dating profile is essential
However, it is equally important to provide a good resemblance of yourself and not overdo with makeup or additional clothing such as scarves etc.
When taking a picture of yourself try to get someone to help you and preferably ask someone who is an avid photographer.
You can usually find these kind of people amongst family relatives and friends.
If they know what they are doing, let them do their job and don’t try to dictate how you want it, because they may become useful later on too.
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Asking for a date - how to break the ice for men - Part 31 (continued)
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Always thinking of your approach using pick up lines is clearly wrong and it will not improve your chances of finding suitable dates.
On rare occasions it may work, because no matter how corny it is, some woman may find it amusing thus opening up the way for a conversation.
It is the conversation where you want to get to and there are many ways to do that instead of using contrived pick-up lines.
Be creative and let your imagination at work. Once I used a line on a lady ‘I enjoy playing tennis, I think you do’ and this was in a night club and the line was so unusual it got her to talk.
Use whatever that comes to your head but make sure it’s not too corny, discriminating or sexual in any way.
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How to add a good photo to your profile - part 2
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From your end, you want to make sure that your face is clean with only a dab of makeup if you wish and your hair is combed or thrown back so much of your face will appear in the picture.
Make sure to wear a nice top, not too colorful but easy on the eye.
Generally, a very light top will reduce the exposure to your face so your face may appear a bit darker than usual.
correct exposure with no background distractions
A darker top will enhance the appearance of your face as will a darker background.
Only take a headshot of yourself as the main picture.
If the website allows additional photos , you may want to have several poses taken which can include full head to toe shots.
Sometimes it can be a good idea to have a picture taken with you engaged in some sort of activity that you like and do often.
How to add a good photo to your profile - part 3 >>>
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