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Part of the problem why some men are not as good as they can be, is compounded by having false expectations and negative views of the outcome.

The mind is such a powerful and potent force, that it can drive us to suicide, lead us to complete bliss, happiness, depression, joy and many other emotional manifestations.

We look forward with great anticipation and excitement when we ‘think’ about something good that we like to do before even doing it.

Whenever we want to do something, we will conjure it up in our heads and may even go through the whole process step by step.

This then translates into doing the activity with relative ease providing we don’t put any negative thoughts to block this process.

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The same applies here, if we were to go with the apprehension that our outcome will end up in failure, in most likelihood the inevitable outcome will be negative.

So the first step towards achieving good results rest with the conditioning of our mind to think positive.

This is the reason why there are so many books written about positive thinking, because it actually works.

Positive thinking just doesn’t end with developing your mind to just think positive, you need to be able to deal with a ‘negative’ event in a ‘positive’ way.

This means that you do not want to feel defeated at the first sign of lack of progress but to think positively about the experience learnt.

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Most successful people often face many ‘negative’ moments in their lives, but they still face it head on and deal with it.

In fact most positive people will have many ‘negative’ moments appear in their lives more often than people who shy away from the challenges of life.

It is important to understand that some of the rejections you will face during your attempts at talking to women are not because of ‘you’.

To give you examples, a woman may turn you down for many reasons, including the following;

1. She had a bad day at work
2. She recently broke up with her boyfriend
3. She is married or engaged
4. She is not interested in men

As you can see the problem stems from the other person and not because of you.

Providing you have done your homework of being presentable, maintain cleanliness, and a good sense of mannerism, you have nothing to worry about being turned down.

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Think positive as much as you can, if you come across a failed attempt, don’t despair or become despondent because there are always other women who are and will be interested in you as a person.

We have digressed a bit from our original topic of discussion and that was about the initial eye contact from afar and to gauge the persons interest level.

This was a necessary topic of discussion and is an important step in the preparation of dating as a whole and to build self-confidence within our selves as well as sheer determination.

The signals you are looking for can be in the facial expression or other movements of the body.

If the woman looks at you and looks away and then turns to look at you again, this can signify interest.

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Assume you have reached this point and you want to qualify further the interest level she has for you before you decide to venture out and approach her.

You can wait to see other movements and gestures in her body.

If she were sitting down and had her arms crossed and was tapping her finger against her arm, this indicates a positive signal.

It is an indirect way of saying ‘come over, I want to talk to you’.

She may also have her entire body facing in your direction, which is also a sign of strong interest.

Other gestures and body movements to watch out for include the tossing back of the hair, showing skin, puckering of the lips, taking here outer garment off and also showing wrist.

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