Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 8

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We don’t want to digress too much from our main topic, but I cannot emphasize the importance of having a good profile. To me it’s just like driving a car without a steering wheel and you will never get to your destination and you probably will have some accident’s in the way until you have your a-ha moment

As mentioned, the section where the dating site asks for your own freedom of expression is where most people will be reading to differentiate you from other members on the site. Granted that you have gone past the tests of body-weight, height, color, age etc. that may stand in the way of some women, your next area to shine is in the place of free expression.

Here you want to say something interesting. DO NOT provide a trivial and boring list of what you like and what interests you, this will get you nowhere. Imagine other people reading it, they are likely to say ‘heard it’, ’seen it’ and ‘bye bye’. Like everyone else we are looking for something special and nowhere is this true than in a relationship that you are seeking with the opposite sex.

Lets explore how you can really make yourself shine…

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Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 7

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So we have addressed the photo on your profile, now let’s examine the rest of the profile information.

The other parts of an online singles profile will consist primarily of a description of yourself such as height, age, profession, hair color etc. and then there is a more important part where you are able to freely say what you want. These sections typically include something to describe your personality, interests, who you are looking for etc.

Now, here is a big secret that many people are not aware of. Do not always follow the exact wordings requested by the dating site. Of course, you cannot change or it is not expected on your part to fib about your weight, height, body type etc. however, the areas where they give you a free reign is where you can really shine.

Even though the dating site may require you to fill the information according to the criteria mentioned, it is there for information purposes only, you can pretty much use it to your full advantage and make your profile really stand out from the crowd.

We will look into this in the next post.

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Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 6

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Ok, just like the doctor examines your feet to check for issues in your stomach, the same applies to messaging other singles and personals in the online dating world.

Another simple analogy is that you dress well when you go out with the boys, so you can make an impression on the ladies. This is all part and parcel of achieving success in the online dating scene.

Photo - It is important that you have a good clear picture of yourself on the profile. Now days, there is no excuse for not having a good photo taken since digital cameras can be had for about $50. For more good help on having quality pictures, visit Dr Datos tips on taking good photos.

Next, let’s look into brushing up more of your online personals profile

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Look and Feel

The very first thing you will notice about this site is that throws up advertisement right on the home page unlike many other dating sites I have seen.

As you scroll down the home page you will actually see a welcome page of the site, which ideally should be at the top of the page. The background of the site is white and you will see the multicolored site on the front. At top are the users menu placed nicely along with accessible features.

The bottom of the site is yet full of matrimonial advertisements.

Registration Process

You need to provide your username, email and password for registration and then you have to give the basic details about yourself like your country, state, date of birth, headline for your profile and a conversation starter.

After that, you have to upload a recent photograph of yourself (ideally with a smiling face :-)) and type the verification code needed for the upload.

Now that you are a registered member of the site, you will be sent a confirmation mail and you need to click on the link and you will be automatically logged onto the site.

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Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 5

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Now that you have understood the merits of simplicity in your message, lets take a peek into what the other person on the receiving end of your message will be thinking of.

For women, the attraction of a man by looking through a profile can be quite different to a man looking at a woman’s profile and this is simply because we are biologically wired differently from each other.

Women will in addition to looking at the photo, try to assemble an idea of the person based on the information provided in the profile and this means they will read your profile unlike some men that will go straight to the messaging based on the picture only.

So tip no. 2 is, if you have not shaped up your profile to what is expected by the female population then you are in for a surprise. You will be struggling to get through with the messaging because of your lack of attention or details to your profile will hamper you from going any further.

Next post will be on, quick ways to brush up your profile.

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men and women can think very differently and applies well to online personals profile

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