The new way of communicating for active daters - Part 1
We no longer live in a society where the only form of communication is via telephone. Granted that one of the best inventions of the last century was the telegram or telephone, but nothing can beat the communication tools of today that is now readily available to everyone.
Many of us today routinely take for granted the devices and ease of access to all the information and knowledge that is now freely available over the internet. Unbeknownst to many of us, there is technology that is operating quietly on the backend called VOIP (voice over internet protocol). This is the technology which will ultimately become the standard way of communicating allows users to talk and video chat with other people anywhere in the world. It is the technology framework that has allowed ‘Magic Jack’ to be a huge seller all over the world. It is also the underlying technology that drives Skype users all around the world. In summary, the VOIP is a protocol which allows users to communicate via the standard medium that we are all familiar with and this is the internet. We do not have to communicate via the Telco networks, if we choose not to. So how exactly can you make the most of this when it comes to communicating with other active singles looking for a date. Lets go through the process of communicating for online daters.
The new way of communicating for active daters - Part 1
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If you join a dating website like Jumpdates, you already have access to some of these tools. The first most obvious is the messaging tool and operates very similar to the email application that you are already familiar with. In addition to this messaging system, it may even tell you if the user is currently online and logged into Jumpdates. You can then transition to the ‘instant messenger’ that Jumpdates also offers. Here again, the system is similar to the chat system that you may have across such as Yahoo chat, MSN or AOL chat. Suppose now that you wanted to communicate via voice. You have the option of exchanging telephone numbers, but this is not encouraged right away until you get to know the person well enough. In this situation, you can talk over using your phones and depending upon the Telco services that you have signed up to you will incur the appropriate charges.
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5 celebrities cheated in their relationship and started dating again
Name, fame, success or money does not deter the celebrities from cheating in a relationship. Most cheat for the thrill and excitement of this forbidden act. It is natural to be attracted towards another person as chemistry works involuntarily. Most people control this felling and act otherwise but some do let go of the logic and step out and venture further.
Five celebrities who cheated in their relationship and started dating again:
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1. Jesse James the famous TV personality cheated on Sandra Bullock which ended their six years of marriage. He was into an extra marital relationship with Michelle McGee. James is now engaged to Kat Von D. They have not officially announced their marriage
2. Brad Pitt cheated on his wife Jennifer Aniston over Angelina Jolie. They called of the marriage and Brad was happily married to Angelina till they filed for a divorce
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3. Tiger Woods had a roaring relationship outside of marriage. His wife Elin Nordegren divorced him in 2010. The divorced golfer is in a relationship with Lindsey Vonn the Olympic skier
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4. Tori Spelling had a relationship with actor Dean McDermott when she was still married to Charlie Shanian. She divorced him in 2006 and married Dean a month later
5. Eric Benet cheated on Halle Berry who left him for adultery and his sex addiction. Eric Benet married Manuela Testolini while rumors say Halle is married to Olivier Martinez
Stepping out of a relationship is not acceptable in any society. The fans emulate the celebrity and literally idol worship them. These fans are most disheartened when they learn about their idol doing wrong. It is difficult to analyze this highly complex behavior of the celebrity who we believe to have a complete and fulfilling life.
Four tips on dating in an Office Political Environment
A while ago we covered the subject of office dating in an office environment and about the dos and donts.
However, there are some hidden office politics in place that one needs to understand and be aware of. This will help you to continue your office romance without having any disruptions to your job. Here are four tips to consider:
Four tips on dating in an Office Political Environment
(1) First find out where office romance stands in the political shelf of the company.
This will vary from one place to another, in some cases it will be relaxed whereas other places it will be very strict. It may border on sexual harassment if other colleagues report it to HR.
(2) Be discreet but genuine
Do not fret too much over a romance you are having with someone as long as it is permitted. Be genuine and don’t feel that need to cover every track. Sometimes, it doesn’t take that much for other colleagues to know the signals are all there.
(3) Absolutely no sex in the office
This may seem like a trivial piece of advice but many have made this mistake and have regretted it.
(4) Do not let the romance interfere with your work
This also may seem obvious, but the point is that you may get up in very emotional feelings that you don’t have any control over. This can indirectly impact your work and bring a negative rap with your other colleagues.
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If you could time travel back to the past?
I recently watched a documentary by the famous physicist Stephen Hawking called ‘Into the Universe with Stephen Hawking’ which comes in 3 episodes. I was particularly intrigued by the 2nd episode on ‘Time Travel’. Here Stephen Hawking describes the feasibility of time travel and muses over traveling in the past in which he concludes would be impossible. The reason for this would be that paradoxes would prevent this from happening. For example, if you could go back in time and by chance, your interference caused your own death then how could you possibly exist in the future. This is a paradox. However, forget the theoretical aspects of time travel and ask yourself why people would want to travel back to the past.
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It may be that some of us would want to go back in time and rectify the wrong doing or change something they regret doing. You have to examine people’s motives and reasons for going back in time. Many historians would love to see the past and corroborate their findings through history books to actual events. Paleontologists would love to find out what happened millions of years ago and how dinosaurs became extinct. Evolutionary theorists would love to know the beginnings of life and when the first seed of life actually sprouted on earth. Religious people would go even further back and look at when the hand of God created the universe. For whatever reasons, it becomes a much more personal matter when you want to go back to the timeline of your own existence. It may indicate a sense of unhappiness with your life and a desire to have taken a different direction. Personally, my interest for going back would be to simply observe but not change any events.
If you do dwell in forgotten events and regret having made the decisions you made, then it is possible that you are not giving yourself a chance for the future. The future holds a wonderment for change and looking forward to what lies ahead with all of our dreams and ambitions are key to our present well being. If we don’t dream of a future and take no action, we simply wallow in our dreams and can never hope to make progress. If we wallow too much from our past events, we embody a sense of fear and a reluctance towards change. No one knows what actually lies ahead but all of us can strive to be something or not. Look back into the past and see that the world has unfolded for you in a way that you could have never imagined. It is impossible to control the future just as it is impossible to have imagined a life of the past. Forget the past, put your best foot forward….always.
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Supercharge your Date with this Exercise - Part 2
The ability to think in the present time or in the zone has great benefits. One must do, be, do, be, do, be… as the famous physicist Amit Goswami explained in his documentary ‘The Quantum Activist’. Here, he refers to the practice of being in the moment and then taking action. For supercharging your date, you need to be in a state of ‘Being’ and then ‘Doing’. Follow these easy steps.
Let’s say you have a few hours before your date. Stop whatever you are doing and sit down in a quiet spot such as on a bed or a chair. Then close your eyes and try to push all thoughts out of your head, relax and take short deep breaths. Your heart should should slow down and once you have completely relaxed which could be as much as ten minutes, just maintain that state as long as you can. You should now be in a deep state of relaxation, this is the state where you are in your present moment in time. Hold that state for a bit longer and then wake up. If you have done this exercise correctly, you will be feel different to what you were feeling before the exercise. Now follow instinctively, whatever your mind conjures up. The thoughts and actions that follow will vary from one person to another. The important thing is that these thoughts emanate from a higher level of plane which is beyond anyone’s capacity of understanding. These thoughts can direct you to a greater and higher path that you could not have done by yourself. It is what Dr Wayne Dyer also calls the ‘Power of Intention’.
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