Art of proposing
Friday 8th Feb 2013 is the Proposal Day of the Valentine Week. You love her but are not confident enough on how to propose to her. You want to make it the most memorable moment of her life and are wondering how you can do it. Women take pride in telling their friends how he proposed. Though she loves you, she will want you to propose in a not so ordinary manner. Here are a few ideas of how to convey your proposal in words and actions. Abruptly saying ‘will you marry me’ by going down on your knees or ‘I love you’ is really not what is going to entice her.
Art-of-proposing
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• ‘You are the core of my very being’. Will you marry me? If you both love drama you can arrange with the stage director to call you both on stage once the curtains fall and you can publicly propose to her.
• Add humor to your proposal. ‘I promise you will have the monopoly of the TV remote except during baseball season. Will you marry me?
• Get the road-side caricaturist to sketch the two of you. Your bubbles will read ‘ will you marry me’ or ‘I love only you’ depending on what you want to propose.
• ‘You bring out the best in me; I want to remain that way for this life time. Will you marry me?’
• ‘I fell in love with you the day we met and my love for you is growing, will you be my wife?’
Tell her some reasons why you want to marry her or why you are proposing your love for her. Is it the time for transition from girlfriend to wife or from a friend to a special one? Make this day unforgettable for both of you. Be sure she feels the same way as you do and don’t assume she will say yes. If she asks for more time, give it to her and don’t lose your sanity over it.
Community Dating Sites – The good and bad side
Online free dating websites are rulers of the heart. Each person can easily and quickly find a date, a friend or a companion for a long term relationship from the comforts of home or office. Community dating websites are turning out to be niche website which is targeted for a particular community. People who believe in traditional ways still search for a companion within their own community.
Community Dating Sites – The good and bad side
At times singles give community dating sites preference over other dating sites as they provide the convenience to find a date or mate from within their own community. It is easier to adjust within the same community as traditions and mindset are the same. This could be one of the reasons for a relationship to sustain longer. One can easily find a date or a soul mate from these community dating sites within the same city, state or from another country. Literally the world has shrunk to the screen or the smart phone when one is looking for a companion in life. The community dating websites is beneficial as it is dedicated to disabled, not straight, religion as well.
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A lot of people do give false information on community dating sites. You may be expecting a blonde, buxom woman or that affluent man who you plan to meet over dinner will he is able to pay at the elite restaurant for both of you. Think again. There is excess of dishonesty where men and women both lie about their physical attributes, job, money, age or knowing some celebrity.
Companionship is a necessity to keep depression away. Pursue your beliefs and find a date from within your community for a happier and a more meaningful life.
Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution - Part 2
It is possible that as a nation expands in economic power and wealth, singles are expected to produce more and their expectations are more complex than say a tribe in a remote part of Africa. Here the tribe work together to form a union between the community where work is shared and the value of each individual becomes even more apparent. In the Western nations, everyone is held accountable to society but not to the family unit around them. It almost seems that society is vying for a bigger contribution from each individual at the cost of family unity. Each of one us is busy trying to make money and fulfill the long term objectives required by the nation to continue its path towards global expansion and power. But for what? To make a few more people at the top more powerful and hungry for more. If one has sufficient money, the reverse is true. They are now in a position to spend more time with family and ponder over matters that are more in tune with the affairs of the heart.
Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution - Part 2
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Are singles of today looking for a brighter future with their partner or just to make sure that both can get by in society and have the ability to maintain some kind of life? What is true is that pairing up can be economical in many ways than one. For example, singles sharing the same roof can reduce their rental outgoings as well as the money that goes towards food, gas etc. It seems that pairing up can make economical sense and the other factor of companionship may come later for some depending on your financial situation. If we are to increase the birth rate of the nation as the German ministries are eager to do, then I believe we need to tackle the bigger problem of people welfare and their standing in society. We can bring all the programs to bear for helping couples to have more children but this would be all wasted if the right environment for couples are not created within the society. This would mean having a less stressful life where the nation is not pulling at individuals from all angles and encourages family unity. It also means the spread of wealth should be divided fairly and not unbalanced such as the case of western nations of today.
Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution
There have been great heated debates on the subject of marriage especially when so marriages end up in divorce. Some are questioning the merits of marriage and wondering if new ways of legalizing couples could overcome the anguish and pain of separation. There are some who are already engaging in contractual agreements where both partners agree to a term of 3 to 5 years. After this period, they can decide whether they should continue or not.
Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution
An aftereffect of this marriage crisis is that many western nations such as Germany are seeing dwindling figures in the number of births. Clearly, the choices of taking up partnerships would entail off springs but the low figures suggests that there are other effects at play here. One of them of course would be the lower number of marriages that maybe taking place between couples. However, the healthy and strong traffic levels to online dating sites also suggests that singles are eager to pair up. Perhaps the shifting trends in coupling are related to the enjoyment factors of individuals such as sex, company and with the added advantage of individual freedom.
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We all know that marriages that took place over fifty or one hundred years ago most stood the test of time. You can recall many couples who have gone through 30, 40, 50 or 60 years of marriage and many are still married today. So what happened to cause such volatility of marriage figures that we are seeing today? It may be, that we have much individual freedom of expression and desires that may not sync completely with our partner. An interesting trend that comes out of the marriage figures are that western world or when a nation expands in power and wealth, the figures for marriages look extremely disappointing. US has one of the highest number of divorces than any other place on earth.
Celebrities that do not take their relationship seriously?
In America the divorce rates amongst celebrities is found to be almost 70%. Most celebrities rush into a relationship thinking it love when it is actually lust. With name, fame, money and success being their companions, most of the celebrities do not take their relationship seriously.
• Selena Gomez the American actor and singer gained popularity with her role as Alex Russo in Wizards of Waverly Place. She is dating Justin Bieber, an 18 year old who is a Canadian singer, dancer, rapper and song writer. Selena says she does not take her personal life to seriously
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Celebrities that do not take their relationship seriously
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• Noel Edmonds is a broadcaster who made his name as a DJ on BBC. He started dating Pauline after breaking up with Marjan Simmons and admits that his relationship with Pauline is not serious
• Fred Armisen with co star Abby Elliot is nothing serious he says. They started dating after Fred split with Elisabeth Moss
• Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher desperately tried to hide the cracks in their marriage until they divorced. Ashton cheated on his wife with Brittney Jones and now is enjoying his time with Mila Kunis
• Katy Perry the ‘wide awake’ singer has been dating Robert Ackroyd the machine guitarist. She insists that her relationship with Robert is not serious
All these celebrities are seen dating but they claim that it is just friendship (with benefits) as they are close friends and nothing serious. It would be interesting to study the brains of these celebrities to find out how they are wired differently. Is it media attention or the need for a companion for a short while that compels them not to take the relationships seriously?
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