Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution - Part 2
It is possible that as a nation expands in economic power and wealth, singles are expected to produce more and their expectations are more complex than say a tribe in a remote part of Africa. Here the tribe work together to form a union between the community where work is shared and the value of each individual becomes even more apparent. In the Western nations, everyone is held accountable to society but not to the family unit around them. It almost seems that society is vying for a bigger contribution from each individual at the cost of family unity. Each of one us is busy trying to make money and fulfill the long term objectives required by the nation to continue its path towards global expansion and power. But for what? To make a few more people at the top more powerful and hungry for more. If one has sufficient money, the reverse is true. They are now in a position to spend more time with family and ponder over matters that are more in tune with the affairs of the heart.
Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution - Part 2
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Are singles of today looking for a brighter future with their partner or just to make sure that both can get by in society and have the ability to maintain some kind of life? What is true is that pairing up can be economical in many ways than one. For example, singles sharing the same roof can reduce their rental outgoings as well as the money that goes towards food, gas etc. It seems that pairing up can make economical sense and the other factor of companionship may come later for some depending on your financial situation. If we are to increase the birth rate of the nation as the German ministries are eager to do, then I believe we need to tackle the bigger problem of people welfare and their standing in society. We can bring all the programs to bear for helping couples to have more children but this would be all wasted if the right environment for couples are not created within the society. This would mean having a less stressful life where the nation is not pulling at individuals from all angles and encourages family unity. It also means the spread of wealth should be divided fairly and not unbalanced such as the case of western nations of today.
Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution
There have been great heated debates on the subject of marriage especially when so marriages end up in divorce. Some are questioning the merits of marriage and wondering if new ways of legalizing couples could overcome the anguish and pain of separation. There are some who are already engaging in contractual agreements where both partners agree to a term of 3 to 5 years. After this period, they can decide whether they should continue or not.
Singles eager to pair up despite marriage being a dying institution
An aftereffect of this marriage crisis is that many western nations such as Germany are seeing dwindling figures in the number of births. Clearly, the choices of taking up partnerships would entail off springs but the low figures suggests that there are other effects at play here. One of them of course would be the lower number of marriages that maybe taking place between couples. However, the healthy and strong traffic levels to online dating sites also suggests that singles are eager to pair up. Perhaps the shifting trends in coupling are related to the enjoyment factors of individuals such as sex, company and with the added advantage of individual freedom.
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We all know that marriages that took place over fifty or one hundred years ago most stood the test of time. You can recall many couples who have gone through 30, 40, 50 or 60 years of marriage and many are still married today. So what happened to cause such volatility of marriage figures that we are seeing today? It may be, that we have much individual freedom of expression and desires that may not sync completely with our partner. An interesting trend that comes out of the marriage figures are that western world or when a nation expands in power and wealth, the figures for marriages look extremely disappointing. US has one of the highest number of divorces than any other place on earth.
Celebrities that do not take their relationship seriously?
In America the divorce rates amongst celebrities is found to be almost 70%. Most celebrities rush into a relationship thinking it love when it is actually lust. With name, fame, money and success being their companions, most of the celebrities do not take their relationship seriously.
• Selena Gomez the American actor and singer gained popularity with her role as Alex Russo in Wizards of Waverly Place. She is dating Justin Bieber, an 18 year old who is a Canadian singer, dancer, rapper and song writer. Selena says she does not take her personal life to seriously
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Celebrities that do not take their relationship seriously
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• Noel Edmonds is a broadcaster who made his name as a DJ on BBC. He started dating Pauline after breaking up with Marjan Simmons and admits that his relationship with Pauline is not serious
• Fred Armisen with co star Abby Elliot is nothing serious he says. They started dating after Fred split with Elisabeth Moss
• Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher desperately tried to hide the cracks in their marriage until they divorced. Ashton cheated on his wife with Brittney Jones and now is enjoying his time with Mila Kunis
• Katy Perry the ‘wide awake’ singer has been dating Robert Ackroyd the machine guitarist. She insists that her relationship with Robert is not serious
All these celebrities are seen dating but they claim that it is just friendship (with benefits) as they are close friends and nothing serious. It would be interesting to study the brains of these celebrities to find out how they are wired differently. Is it media attention or the need for a companion for a short while that compels them not to take the relationships seriously?
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7 facts singles want to hide from their date forever
Dating is an exciting moment in each one’s life. Each person wants to put up his or her best foot forward when on a date. Special care is taken to wear the right outfit, the hairdo, the perfume, the footwear and the accessories too. Dating marks the beginning of a relationship and gives a sense of well-being and security to the singles. No single going on a date would want to ruin that relationship. He or she would strive to build a stronger bond with the date if the chemistry works on the first meeting. Most singles will hide these facts from their date, so be wary of these:
1. Alcoholism - this is one of the biggest problems singles face if they have been alone and lonely for too long. Their dependence on alcohol may have made them alcoholics which they will never share with their date for a fear of losing him or her
7 facts singles want to hide from their date forever
2. Drug abuse- even if he or she has been rehabilitated one will never give this secret out. Hiding this fact seems proper to them as they consider this a passing phase of life
3. Relationship with ex- knowing details of relationship with the ex may drive your date away. Don’t mention former lovers to her or she may label you to be a sex maniac
4. Personal Comment- no matter how fat or ugly she looks in that dress, never tell her that unless you want to get rid of her
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5. Family secrets-are best kept secrets. Be it a broken home, your parents multiple partners or gay or lesbian streaks
6. OCD- obsessive compulsive disorder is most prevalent amongst people today. Most of them are aware of it but do not want disclose that fact
7. Medical Ailment-is best kept hidden from the date forever which maybe life threatening so one can enjoy the company
Being too honest with your date may not be the best policy and that is the reason why singles hide facts from their date. However, be aware that trust can be lost if you don’t disclose some of this information early on in the relationship.
5 desperate status messages on FB to find dates
It’s becomes a fashion statement to change FB status update to show what you have in mind and Facebook.com being the most popular social networking site today. With more than a million registered users it has become the best platform of interaction. With so many people from all over the world being online 24 hours a day, do you think it is easy to find a date here?
Loneliness does drive anybody crazy. People get desperate to find a companion, a date. People change their status message to convey this desperation. Here are desperate status messages on FB to find a date that will make you wonder about the person and probably his or her temperament.
desperate status messages on FB to find dates
1. There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can’t take them off you
Conveys desperation by the user and believes that the person who likes it or responds to it is interested in dating.
2. You are so hot that I get tanned when I look at you
Will trigger the interest of a person who is searching for a time pass date for sure
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3. The doors of my heart are open for the evening…walk in
This conveys that what anybody will do. Need not be anybody special with no chance of becoming special if this status is consistent
4. Don’t waste time giving someone a second chance, I am waiting here for you
5. I want a date this Valentine..even if it’s just for that day
The status says it all
Yes people do get so desperate when they are unable to find a date.
