What Women Want
These image below are great for laughs and they made round to most inboxes justifying men’s actions and understanding women as being senseless. This is definitely good only for laughs; women are one of the most beautiful creations on earth who serve multiple purposes as a mother, daughter, girlfriend, wife, partner, philosopher and guide.
female-brain-jumpdates
male-brain-jumpdates
Women themselves are confused about what they want as the pressures of society and people they are surrounded by forcing them to follow some norm. Women by nature are peace loving and their brain is wired towards empathy for all connecting on an emotional plane unlike the men whose testosterones compel them to be achievers and connect instantly on a physical plane.
From the Stone Age, men were the hunters and protectors while women cooked the meat and looked after the babies and the home. Men are wired to bring food for the family, protect them and provide shelter. Women on the other hand provide meals, look after the babies, keep a clean home and of course sex on demand. Both men and women were happy and satisfied in their defined roles.
Over the years, men started looking down upon the duties that women did to keep the men happy. They started treating the women like door-mats and took them for granted. One basic requirement for the women is respect. All they ask for is to be treated like you men want to be treated with honesty, fairness, kindness and being considerate. The work stress in life for men too increased due to need for higher standard of living, the competition for material goods. Men forgot to respect their women and started chasing money and finding ways to earn more. All frustrations of hard work, insecurity at job and inefficiency to meet the need and demands created a rift in the relationship. Women lost interest in sex as the man did not respect her. Men got options for physical satisfaction outside of marriage too. Women were forced to step out in the corporate world not only to support the household income but to prove to the men that they are capable of doing any task as good as the men if not better. Women fought a tussle daily where they are basically wired to be home makers but circumstances forced them to move out of the comfort of home into the world of competition.
Since the women decided to step out they put in their best effort to achieve success. Success and power gave the women a high and they strived to reach the top and remain there. This not only earned them respect from the stronger sex but created an ego conflict with their spouse/partner too. This wrecked the psychology of women as basically all they need is a home and holiday. At the core women are home makers who are happy in their world where they make a house into a home. The demands and needs have gone up and women today look out for a rich husband who can fulfill their luxurious needs. Women have made a ‘U’ turn today going back to home and hearth and stepping aside from the corporate world.
No matter how rich and successful the man is, he has to work and make more and more money. This is his ego-satisfaction. He too looks for a woman who is good looking, intelligent and willing to be a home maker. He takes pride in her looks and intelligence to boast to his friends that he is one of those people who made sure his wife has brains and beauty for which he earns such a lot of money and keeps working. Male psychology defines success in marriage as being able to earn much more than wife can ever spend! This feeling massages the male ego and inflates it further. He enjoys working to earn more money and his wife is more than happy being the wife of a rich successful man looking after the home, enjoying all the parties, diamonds and great holiday destinations with her husband and family.
No matter how we progress and evolve, women are the same at the core of their very being…home makers!!! All women need is respect, affections and appreciation for all that she silently does for her man and family and she will mould herself as per the circumstances to make her family comfortable and something to feel proud of.
How new born revive your love life and relationship
Call her the princess or the king of your universe. This bundle of joy changes the perception of the couple the moment he/she is delivered into this world like a little rat with all mucus and slime around. The feeling of elation and the emotion at that moment is to be experienced as no words can express that. The world comes to a standstill, the brain goes numb and the heart pounds out of the rib cage, literally. This emotion, feeling, state of mind can be compared to falling of love or being proposed but 1000 times over!
Expectant parents spend months together preparing for the baby’s arrival. The happiness cannot be contained on either of the parent’s faces when they come to know that they are going to become three people from two. The couple starts caring much more for each other and plans what they can give best to the child. The life starts revolving around the new guest who will be an integral part of their very being.
How new born revive your love life and relationship
After nine months of waiting, the arrival of the new born enriches the life and the couple experiences a new kind of love that is not thought to be possible. Finding the right person has become easier through the online dating sites. Dating regular builds the relationship and understanding. Romance brings both of you together and the baby is a true sign of your love. The elated parents can’t keep their eyes off each other and wish that parents got another set of eyes to keep on their new baby too!
Beware all is not as rosy as the child requires more attention and keeps you awake at night. This may become stressful for both parents and may be a bone of contention. Keep in mind that is your spouse/partner and your child so don’t let this teething trouble ruin the beautiful relationship. Don’t let the routine, less spontaneous lifestyle affect your relationship. Focus on the closeness and bonding that this new born has revived thereby adding more meaning to your relationship.
With so many emotions acting together, the relationship gets renewed and revived. Babies are small, fragile, and helpless but they have such a powerful impact that the couple gets transformed into parents. The baby brings the couple together, even more closely and changes the nature of friendship and understanding too.
Exciting side of cougar dating
Older women who show interest in dating younger men for physical intimacy are called ‘cougars’. This is a changing trend which is being widely accepted world-wide. A lot of Hollywood celebrities are the trend-setters. Cougars are classified into two categories, alpha and beta. The alpha cougars are sophisticated, intelligent and looking for sexual empowerment. The beta cougars are the ones who look for someone who can make them feel good about themselves.
Wine develops its flavor and identity upon maturing, the same is true with most women. Men find it more than exciting to date an alpha cougar. The newness of the relationship is exciting if both discover what they want before indulging in this relationship.
Exciting side of cougar dating
Do not focus on age lest it becomes a barrier. Live the moment and keep the mind open for new ideas to make the relationship fun. Age is all in the mind, a not so young, energetic, enthusiastic woman can be a great companion for a guy who maybe even two decades younger than her. Sophistication will keep the guy chasing you for more.
Feel free to express your emotions. Compliment him on his achievement which will make him feel good. Remember you are not his mother so don’t play mom. Being honest with each other builds a stronger foundation of the relationship which gives security to both and adds to the excitement of spending time together.
Being with an emotionally matured lady is very exciting for the younger guy in addition to her being financially secure as well. The well dressed, good looking woman who maintains herself with regular exercise is desirable for any man. This relaxes the brain and secretes the ‘feel good hormone’ for both.
Physical intimacy is an important aspect of cougar dating, going to classy restaurants to wine and dine works wonders for the relationship. Add excitement by trying stuff she has never done before which could be skydiving, moonlight walk or golfing. Have a few drinks together to kill the nervousness and enjoy some dancing together or go on a holiday to make it more exciting.
Dating for fun with no strings attached makes cougar dating most exciting and kind of sought after. With lot of online dating sites devoting a section to ‘cougar dating’ it is easy to find the younger guy you are looking for. Uncork the champagne, feed him his favorite dessert, wear the sexy outfit, and show him how much you appreciate him which makes the relations most exciting and wonderful.
Australian Nightlife for Singles
Australia -the land down under is loaded with night life thunder. Be it bars, strip clubs, casinos or eating place. The nation that works hard and parties harder is Australia. Whether you are a resident or a tourist, night life can be most exciting here for singles as well as for couples.
Australian Night Life for Singles
Related Article - Top dating outfit to beat Australian Summer
The drinking age in Australia is 18 year so most of the youngsters can add to the fun of night life with a consumption of reasonable amount of drinks. The drink and drive laws are very strict so make sure you don’t drive after you drink.
Casinos are a hot favorite in Australia. No matter which city you are in, casinos are a fun place to go try your luck. Gambling being legal in Australia, you need to be 18 years (carry your identity card) to enter the casino. The casinos are well maintained with amazing decor, excellent varieties of drinks and nibblers which add to the fun of gambling. Most casinos have slot machines, roulette, black jack, baccarat, big 6, poker and lot of other games where the wager varies from a dollar to fifty dollars or even higher. Word of advice is to play cautiously and set your limit of money that you will contribute to the casinos economy.
Strip clubs are another favorite of the visitors or residents when in Australia. For a very low entry fees each one can enjoy the time at the various strip clubs across the country. The strip clubs are specialized to cater to the men and women thereby making it an interesting experience.
The bars and pubs serve different alcoholic drinks and beverages. Most popular here are the beers on tap and the jugglery that the bartender has mastered. The live bands or recorded music that plays at these pubs/bars makes the place more alive.
Another exciting option that Australia offers is Party Buses. One can book a party bus or a limousine and have a party on the move. No need to go club hopping when you can just enjoy the night with friends right in the bus and move around the city or even go out of town.
Australia is a country that offers the best night life in the world since it is one of the safest countries in the world. Go party till dawn on a weekend and be rejuvenated by Sunday ready for Monday!
Tags: Australian dating, Australian singles, Night Life for Singles
Romantic Myths of Teen Dating
Romantic novels and mushy movies starring the young suave stars compels the teenagers to believe that dating and love is what life is all about. Look into the eyes, falling in love and be committed to live happily ever after.
Romantic Myths of Teen Dating
Related Article : Dad Worried about Teenage Girls Dating Need Not Worry Anymore
Teenagers undergo hormonal changes that affect their moods. They may go into depression, become moody and loners too. Meeting a person and wanting to spend time with him/her is a natural instinct. The physical attractiveness is the basis of building a relationship. Teens are influenced by romantic novels, images, movies which attract them to the good looking, well dressed person. They start re-living some fantasy of love at first sight. It’s just attraction due to the hormonal changes.
Possessiveness is another myth that teenagers are accused of. When one is going through a transitional phase and period of loneliness the person who gives you comfort is the best person in your life. The hormonal changes create the emotion of jealousy and this may lead to teenage violence.
Teenagers believe that this relationship is the most valued and serious relationship in their life. Parents must encourage group dating and communicate more with the teenagers to keep them out of trouble. Don’t be too harsh but simply discipline them by explaining why certain acts are forbidden.
Mr. Right will come along and sweep you off your feet never happens. Love conquers all (race, caste, religion) is never true as grown up couples are known to break up over a brand of toothpaste. Your love cannot change the weirdo. He/she is no diamond that will get polished with your love but will remain a weirdo only.
Maybe sitting by the phone and waiting for your date to call may have changed but the myths of teenage romance continue till date.
Related Resource
http://www.fed.cuhk.edu.hk/~lchang/material/adol/Reading%20List/Collins.pdf
Tags: teen dating, teenage boy, teenage girl, teenage romance
