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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 6 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Monday, March 7th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 6
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Ok, just like the doctor examines your feet to check for issues in your stomach, the same applies to messaging other singles and personals in the online dating world.
Another simple analogy is that you dress well when you go out with the boys, so you can make an impression on the ladies. This is all part and parcel of achieving success in the online dating scene.
Photo - It is important that you have a good clear picture of yourself on the profile. Now days, there is no excuse for not having a good photo taken since digital cameras can be had for about $50. For more good help on having quality pictures, visit Dr Datos tips on taking good photos.
Next, let’s look into brushing up more of your online personals profile
good online dating photos can say a thousand words but make sure they are good words!
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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 5 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Monday, March 7th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 5
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Now that you have understood the merits of simplicity in your message, lets take a peek into what the other person on the receiving end of your message will be thinking of.
For women, the attraction of a man by looking through a profile can be quite different to a man looking at a woman’s profile and this is simply because we are biologically wired differently from each other.
Women will in addition to looking at the photo, try to assemble an idea of the person based on the information provided in the profile and this means they will read your profile unlike some men that will go straight to the messaging based on the picture only.
So tip no. 2 is, if you have not shaped up your profile to what is expected by the female population then you are in for a surprise. You will be struggling to get through with the messaging because of your lack of attention or details to your profile will hamper you from going any further.
Next post will be on, quick ways to brush up your profile.
men and women can think very differently and applies well to online personals profile
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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 4 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Monday, March 7th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 4
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Ok, so you had a few minutes to scan the profile but now what?
What should be happening as you were scanning the profile were interesting tit-bits in the profile that interested you and made you pay attention apart from just the profile picture.
The ‘interesting pieces’ that you gleaned from the profile could be anything ie. the person is into needlework, loves traveling, has a crazy job etc. Your next task is to formulate a very simple message that highlights those points and it doesn’t have to be anything earth shattering just simple words to convey an acceptable message.
Remember the analogy, where your best approach to a woman you have never met would be to say something very simple and nothing extraordinary, which usually works.
Before we move to the next set of tips, lets digress for a moment and discuss what happens on the other end ie. the lady that is going to read your message. This is a good visualization process to go through as it will help you better shape your message.
simplicity applies to the real world also, people can better communicate with each other
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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 3 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Monday, March 7th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 3
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
As the previous post suggested, by actually studying the profile that you will write drastically improves your chances of having a positive response. This simple task leads us to the next tip of actually formulating what to say as an effective ice-breaker.
To give you an example, let’s say that you found a woman across the room to be attractive and you wanted to talk to her. We have found that many lines that are just simply natural does the trick ie. “What do you think of the party?”, “I loved the food, what did you think?”.
Notice how the lines are geared towards a question and also says something about the current event. In the same way, you want to write something that will reflect a ‘common’ ground for a conversation starter which is not boring but interesting.
In the next post we will pick up interesting points from the profile that will make good in your message.
unusual shapes create an interest and we should open our eyes to pick out interesting pieces from other online dating profiles
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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 2 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Monday, March 7th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 2
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Previously we discussed how it can be a hard task, especially for men to break the ice when it comes to messaging someone they like.
The first thing is to understand that online profiles are very impersonal and you do not want to put too much emotional investment on a dating profile prior to having even communicated or talking to them. This is because the online profile can be starkly different to the actual person as some members have found out. This topic is another conversation to itself, but first lets talk about in improving your first opening line so you chances are greatly improved.
Tip 1 - Study the profile - spend 1 minute minimum in scanning the profile, thats all it takes
some little research is all it takes to improve your communication skills
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