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When can love and romance go astray on free dating sites
Monday, April 9th, 2012
We have come to accept today that finding love online is almost as easy as making a cup of coffee. Gone are the days when we would spend extravagant times to dress up and look the part when we find those rare dates with men or women we met earlier in the bar, club or school. Granted, that it is very easy to throw yourself into a romantic whirlpool when you pursue all those profiles and you find yourself dreaming and feeling good about a profile you just found.
You proceed to message that person and you heart misses a beat, your head is swimming with pictures and possibilities of what you feel with this person you only just met online. Immediately the love affair has started with this virtual person and you further convince yourself that this match between you and the profile is made in heaven.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a bit of romantic escapacism with someone you meet through the online dating sites but this could be an early indication that you could be a pushover when it comes to the date. Advice given by many leading consultants that specialize in dating have always said to be level-headed when it comes to your first meeting with a date. Unfortunately the advice is easily said but how does one control the affairs of the heart. Maybe love needs to blossom from this romantic aura that captivates us in such a way that it propels you forward into the unknown.
Can one be so clinical when it comes to matters of the heart?
Maybe we should see the person for what they are before we decide to wear our hearts on our sleeve. There is good statistical evidence to support the argument that the initial ‘love infatuation’ can wear off after a few years because we actually like to be catapulted into a whirlwind of romance and let fate decide where it can lead us. After a couple of years we finally land with a thump and come to accept reality for what it is and perhaps throw ourselves back into another whirlwind romance.
Perhaps this can explain why over many centuries the Eastern way of matching a bride and bridegroom by arrangement can have its benefits.
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Virginity - A Painful Subject for Some but a Boon for Others
Sunday, April 8th, 2012
I recently came across an interesting post where a young man had posed the question whether it was ok to be a virgin at 18. There were many responses to this post including many from women. The responses in general were very positive giving praise to the young man and telling him to wait until the right person comes along. There are also plenty of reassurances from many saying that there is nothing to be ashamed about this but to feel proud. Some women who lost their virginity very young were positive in their attitude and went as far to say that one shouldn’t cave in until you were completely comfortable with the situation.
In the USA alone the statistics for teenage sexual activity shows that 13% of teens have had sex by age 15 and the figure increases to 70% by the age of 19*.
If one did a search in Google, you will find some interesting posts by people giving advice on how to remain a virgin. The advice appears to be very constructive where they actually emphasize the importance of meeting lots of people of both sexes and going out on dates. This physochologically can take away the pressure of thinking about sex and focus on more important aspects of your life. They also emphasize that this cannot be done without the very important trait of having a respect for yourself and of others. This is where many would classify people according to their self-esteem which is a measure of your own self-worth and your values. There are a few who also advocate the religious values and the doctrines of sexual relationships between a man and woman and while giving some worldly advice in this matter they emphasize the importance of the connection with God.
In terms of the many people who are dating online, everyone will no doubt have their own values when it comes to having sex. However, the general advice seems to be from the woman’s point of view is not to get pressurized by the man and for men to wait until they find their ideal partner.
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Is there anything wrong with US men in dating women from Ukraine?
Saturday, April 7th, 2012
The online dating sites today has just made the whole world a lot smaller. It only takes a few minutes of your time to find a good free dating site and put up your profile and start chatting to the countless number of singles located here and from other countries.
One of the trends in online dating is that many men from the Western nations look for potential partners from countries in the Eastern bloc such as Ukranine. What could be the possible attraction for choosing to go across half the word to find a potential mate for yourself. After all, they come from very different cultures to the one we are used to in the West and then their maybe communication issues with English since it is not their primary language.
Dr Phil in his recent syndicated show interviewed a gentlemen living in the US who went all over to Ukranine to find himself one of the single women through an online dating agency. Unfortunately, he had a bad experience where he become ill and the woman that he eventually met was not interested in him. But this did not deter him from trying again and expects to go back to Ukraine soon. One of his reasons for choosing woman from that part of the world as opposed to woman from his own country was that there was too much competition in his own territory. He described his experience where he used to go line dancing in his hometown in Texas and whenever he had opportunities to meet other women there would be stiff competition from other men. He explains that when he is in Ukraine, there are ample opportunities to meet many single women.
Part of the reasons why woman are attractive to men is because they usually have limited opportunities in their own and are eager to look for a better way of life. Hence men from the rich Western nations are an attractive catch. A spokesman from a popular online dating agency made no bones about the fact that women from Ukraine and other countries are always looking for a better future and if American men offers that opportunity then there just happens to be good synergy or karma. Men are looking to offer a good life to the woman and the woman in turn return this favor by being the best partner possible. Generally it has been said that women from many parts of the world have an upbringing and values instilled in them that are very different to the women here. For some men like the gentleman described earlier are often attracted to those qualities and they have no qualms in settling down with a lifelong partner from abroad.
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What’s Your Choice…Speed Dating Show or Online Dating?
Friday, April 6th, 2012
“Take me out” this is latest speed dating show by Perez Hilton going on air as 30 girls battling out over one man to go on date. It will have a feel of a game where men need to impress the ladies and in turn they put on the charms if they find him sexy.
In every episode they will create one date and as many as 30 ladies will join in and try their luck. This would be interesting to watch but we need to wait to find out how singles can get in to that show. But, being a speed dating show, don’t you feel it is slow in nature. There is nothing wrong in having a stab at this kind of dating, but online dating looks to be a better idea.
We all know how online dating has been helping millions of singles to find their dating partner and creating relationships. Major online dating sites do not take more than 2 minutes to join and find countless numbers of males and females to choose dates with. Some of the dating websites especially Jumpdates.com offers a Facebook plugin to register in a matter of seconds. The question is when we have these quick means to find a date then do we need speed dating shows. This show naturally has created a buzz because of it’s big name and a famous celebrity hosting the show.
Comment on your views and join the discussion of this new speed dating show hosted by Perez Hilton.
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The sensitive subject of sex when it comes to online dating?
Thursday, April 5th, 2012
We know that the online dating industry has provided an easy platform for many singles to meet other like-minded singles. In actual fact when the online dating industry was working its way into the main stream over a decade ago there was another active and busy online singles industry in the form of adult dating. This adult online dating business was taking a firm footing in the industry and collecting millions for many companies providing this service. It was only a matter of time when many of the online dating companies including many free dating sites also ventured into this market with their own helpings such as the adult matchdoctor and adult friendfinder network.
However, today we don’t seem to be seeing much of these websites as we did before. Perhaps its due to regulations or lack of interest from many singles or maybe these kind of activities have slowly shifted and thinly veiled into the popular mainstream dating sites of today. Whatever the reasons, there is no question that the popularity of the internet and ease of accessibility makes meeting people significantly quicker and easier than ever before. None more so with new devices capable of accessing the internet on the fly with simple gestures of your fingers namely, the smart phones, tablets etc.
Is it possible that the online dating industry is creating new behavioral patterns when it comes to peoples opinions on meeting other people with a view to having sex. Jumpdates.com recently conducted a study on this very issue in collaboration with the department of Nursing, University of British Columbia. It was found that sexual behavior had indeed changed with the advent of online dating, although conclusive studies as yet to be done to pinpoint essential factors.
If sexual activity has increased and with more partners than before as a result of the online dating sites than this could pose potential problems with regards to health and safety. In addition to the psychological impact of people’s behavior to sex the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STI), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) and venereal diseases (VD) can pose significant problems to the nation as did the epidemic of AIDS. Perhaps it would be a good a time as any to bring more awareness to the general public on this topic and especially singles who are now actively dating than ever before.
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