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What does love mean to you or your dating partner – Do we really know?
Monday, April 2nd, 2012
For most of us, the word love is used fairly loosely and we often think its a word more associated with other people rather than us. We almost always portray love associated with characters we see in movies and at times we may refer to love to some real world couples that we happen to know. However, when love rears its head and glares at us, we associate the experience with everything else except but love. So why is love so enigmatic and yet we can confidently say that a couple is in love?
What does love mean to you or your dating partner – Do we really know?
Love in my opinion is a very personal affair. One’s interpretation of love could be considered as an anguish or a painful desire for something unattainable. For others it maybe a feeling of euphoria when you think of another person but not necessarily being in the company of that person. This begs the question… can we honestly say that love exists between two people when each of the person concerned are at an elevated feeling just by being with each other or thinking of each other. In other words, it ‘takes two to tango’. Can someone wittingly ‘evoke’ love in another person? After all, in love or during dating each one of use is trying to impress the other. Could our ultimate goal for doing this is to indirectly heighten the pleasure of someone else and thus make them in turn love you?
Whatever it is, we know that love certainly exists. It is a force that paves the way for men and women to achieve great feats of power. The triumph of this power makes both men and women reach elevated states that are often beyond human comprehension. This is something we all want to achieve and in a way gives us a sense of direction and guidance to our lives. In essence, it gives us some purpose and meaning to our lives. In the realm of dating, if two people can bring about these feelings within each other, who is to say it is not love.
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The Art of Less Talk on your First Date
Sunday, March 25th, 2012
We often hear from other people that ‘listening’ is a great skill to have but everyone has a different approach to this. In fact, many people especially singles going out on their first date can quite easily botch up the date if this skill is not understood properly or practiced.
The Art of Less Talk on your First Date
So you have met your partner though the free dating site and you are now both sitting across the table having coffee or lunch. This is the best time to hone in on your skills in the listening department because how you come across to each other will determine the outcome of the entire date. Apart from the physical attraction that may exist between the two of you, you are also trying to get snippets of each other through conversation.
If you find yourself the extroverted and the incessant talker, which you should very well know by now, then you definitely have to slow down during the date. This can be hard for some people but a good practice would be to take short breaks when you talk and then distract your mind with something. A good tip is to throw a question back to the other person and wait for them to respond. Remember, this shows an interest on your part and also courteousness and consideration that are slowly diminishing from our society today. When you find yourself in the receiving end of an avid talker, you can do many things such as a mild interruption or changing the topic.
You may find yourself with someone who doesn’t say much and this could be due to many things such as shyness or insecurity etc. Your best bet is to keep the conversation moving and this would be a good time when you can talk about something that you like, for example your hobby. However, only do this when you find yourself needing to ‘pad’ the conversation.
For some people talking becomes natural to them but can be harder for others. Be sure to check out the profile of the person you are dating in more detail so you can feel that you are somewhat matched and the date will not completely go south. Having lots of pictures especially of you engaged in activities on the free dating site will surely tell you more about the person, their personality and the likelihood of the dating conversation.
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Young Singles, College Dating…Come Out from the Comfort Zone
Sunday, February 26th, 2012
Have you ever got sweaty palms? Or butterfly in you stomach while asking for date to your college friend. I am sure many of you would answer is affirmative. Hang out in group is completely different ball game when you plan for a date where only two of you will be together. This would very much an intimidating situation if you haven’t been in such situation. But, hang on you are not dating stranger. You guys are friends and share common interest and that can give you ample opportunity to calm your nerves.
Young Singles, College Dating…Come Out from the Comfort Zone
Here Are Your Top 3 Do’s to Come out Of Friend Zone Before Asking for Date
1. Wait for Boiling Point: Timing is very important in any relationship specially asking for date. If both you have always around with your friends and never been hanging out alone then this could be awkward situation. Here s tips to get this going
• Talking about people, friends and their stories would be good icebreaker for both of you. Talk about opposite sex and try to gain from jealousy factor, but don’t over do it as you might spoil the show.
• Teasing game is a real fun and can set the right mood for you. You are getting strong signals and both you keep having eye contact, but wait don’t just jump in to it right away. Here is twist try to avoid group hangout and disappear for couple of days from group. This will create a curiosity and you can become a part of his/her loneliness even when you are not around.
• Find a calm space when you hangout with your friends where both of you are alone even though crowded by friends. This is right time to ask for date, that’s fine if you don’t decide the date the time.
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2. Schedule a date: Carry on from where both of you left and schedule a date, but don’t much brainstorm. Keep is simple plan a casual date.
3. On the big Day: Obviously you don’t want to spoil the show after doing all the heard work and amount of time you sent for this day. Be yourself, you are going to date you friend and nothing has changed. You both are still the same only the place is different. Don’t be nervous, be calm relax. Don’t try to win the heart in the first meeting by presenting something that you don’t. There are plenty of thing to talk be don’t plan every thing and be expressive and spontaneous.
Many young single shy away from asking friend for a date reason because they are afraid of loosing a friend. But, that is not the best way to do, you can go on date and find that she don’t want to be your girlfriend and even you realize that she is not the one you are looking for, so what you can still be friends.
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Hidden Treasures of Long Lasting Relationship for Singles…It’s in their Blood
Monday, February 20th, 2012
Large numbers of singles and couples from the Unites States take help of dating coaches to revitalize their dating life or to find out their compatibility. There are other methods that also reveal the truth of compatibility and lasting relationships like Astrological match, but now scientists have broken the code of long lasting relationships….well it’s in your blood, literally.
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Yes it’s true, now you can find all the answers that you want to know about your relationship like whether this relationship is going to work? Or how deeply your partner loves you? A simple blood test can answer these questions for you. Scientific research has found that singles recently in a romantic relationship have shown higher levels of oxytocin in there blood sample. Tests were conducted on 160 young singles who recently started dating out and out of 36 were still dating after 6 month. Looking back at their records shows that their oxytocin level was high which backs the claim.
But can all the relationship be predicated by a simple blood test? Certainly not! There can be a strong chance of being attracted to someone with a sex drive which increases oxytocin level and won’t be considered as real love. Human relationships are more complex and depend on different factors and vary from human to human. Members of the research team said that these findings suggest that lovers were completely into each other and satisfied by mating and that raises the oxytocin level, but you cannot predict everything. We should not make our relationship so clinical that we have to resort to blood match and forget about the romance. We should rely on our human instincts and emotions and leave the blood test for diagnoses that are physical, not emotional.
Free dating sites expert Mayur Vyas, at Jumpdates has a different view on this. He says that when you meet someone new or fall in love you are excited and your oxytocin level goes up, but if you have been married to someone for 20 odd years you won’t feel the same excitement but you are still in love. In fact you love more than when you started. Love is like old wine it becomes more satisfying and refreshing with time.
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Source: http://www.columbiatribune.com/news/2012/feb/19/our-chemical-romance/
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Google Doodle Spread the Message “Do What Your Partner Likes”
Tuesday, February 14th, 2012
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Google is celebrating Valentine’s Day with using their signature style Google doodle. This doodle is a short video about how a boy wants to pair up with his girlfriend by gifting different gifts, but fails to impress her. To choose a different gift every time he goes to Google search engine and tries to find an innovative Valentine’s Day gift. Video shows how much girls enjoying the “jump rope” or in European countries they call it “skipping rope”. When he is left with no options he also starts doing “jump rope” and that is the moment when his girlfriend notices him and gives him a sweet hug and at the end they both start doing “jump rope” together. Hang on “Does Google actually tries to say that not to use their services for selecting gifts?” or want to spread the message that do something with your partner something like “Join a niche dating site”
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Online singles hitting Google home page on Valentine’s Day will think differently. At Jumpdates we did think hard about it and come up with our own conclusion about this Google doodle on Valentine’s Day. If you go through the Google doodle for the first time then you might feel that Google wants to stop online singles to use their services to find the real cool Valentine’s Day gifts, but how can Google say that. Why would someone want to de-fame their credibility. The clear message from Google on Valentine’s Day is to do something with your partner that you both love to do. It’s like keep it simple rather than let others do the thinking and keeping it less complicated.
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Try to think wiser, you understand your partner’s feeling, likes, dislikes, favorite food, favorite color and almost every bit that makes you perfect for each other then how can a search engine tell you what your partner would like to have or do on this special Valentine’s Day. There is another angle to this that cannot be ignored. If you are single and do not have your Valentine then go out there and find someone who shares the same passions and interest as you do.
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You can even deny the possibility that some way or another Google is helping “Niche Dating Sites” by spreading the message “Do something that you partner would love”. We have seen a sharp rise in “Niche Dating Sites” as sites for food lovers, pet lovers, HIV positive single, doctors and many more as the list goes on and on. The message from Jumpdates for this Valentine’s Day is “Do something with your partner that you both love”.
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