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Understanding people’s personality through compliments
Tuesday, May 22nd, 2012
While it may seem obvious that a compliment is a compliment, in actual fact, if you read between the lines you can understand more about the nature of the person. You probably received a compliment but had some doubts to its sincerity in the way it was delivered.
Understanding people’s personality through compliments
Many people use flattery and compliments to achieve a hidden aim or agenda. Salespeople use it to good effect in order to make a sale and others may become aware of its power and exploit it for their own gain. Sometimes a compliment is not a compliment at all and you need to be aware of this before you lift up your spirits and take a certain course of action. Sincere compliments will come in small doses rather than a whole series of them, because the people who deliver these understand the importance and value of a compliment. You have the effect of diluting the effect of compliments if you liberally apply it to a single person and more frequently, for example, someone who works for you. It also reflects on the value system you have of yourself and can show the high standards you set in order to dish out compliments.
In other cases, when someone gives you a compliment and takes the onus away from you to themselves, it is not a good compliment. A compliment should be all about you and no one else and if someone brings himself or herself into the compliment it could indicate a somewhat selfish nature. Next time you deliver a compliment, make sure it is directed squarely at that person that you are giving the compliment and leave it at that. Let them relish for a while in the thought of having done something good that was warranted to receive a compliment.
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Getting out of the rut and taking back control
Tuesday, May 22nd, 2012
We’ve all heard the saying ‘variety is the spice of life’ but how do we actually bring variety into our own lives. Many of us would simply pass this by thinking that changing the way you are brings added complications and more stress results. In fact, it is quite the opposite, the change that most people fear actually brings much needed zest and passion that is so necessary in our lives. In particular, it can help build stronger relationships and at the same time put us in a much better frame of mind.
The biggest obstacle towards sprucing up your life originates from the mind. How often have you thought about doing something but never really go around to doing it. I can bet you that if you were to total up the time you spent in thinking of doing something but never doing it, it would most likely be longer than the task itself! What is this fear that people have in undertaking any tasks that they would love to do, but simply cannot motivate themselves to doing it? Part of the reasons, in my opinion, is due to too much thinking.
The tendency for most of us, is that when we think too much we inevitably bring about our own personal views to the tasks in hand. This can always be defeatism, because we start to make excuses of how we don’t like to do it, or we were never good at it or simply not confident enough. The mind initially starts with a ‘DO’ attitude and inevitably all our hidden fears and excuses turns the whole event into a ‘DONT’. Next time you find yourself in this quagmire, think about the tasks that you do with passion and zest. You probably do not hesitate for a second to get onto those tasks without even thinking. Your best bet it to take action while you are in the ‘DOING’ stage of the thinking and think about the ‘NAYS’ after doing it. You may very well ask yourself, ‘what all the fuss was all about and how easy the whole task was’.
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What is Love – a Chain Reaction or Feelings from the Heart
Monday, May 21st, 2012
Answering the question “what is love?” is very simple and at the same time very difficult as there is both scientific as well as psychological answers to the question. What science says that when you love someone your mind tends to think about that more often and you find yourself attracted towards that beauty.
What is Love – a Chain Reaction or Feelings from the Heart
This attraction is termed as a state of mind that can last for a few days, months, years or sometimes as long as a lifetime. This can also be termed as a chain reaction or chemical reaction in your brain which intoxicates or mesmerizes you towards the object of your love. This happens all at once or numerous times in your life which they termed as love.
On the other side of the coin psychologists connect this with human feelings and say that it comes from the heart. When you find someone whom you feel is the perfect partner you automatically get attracted due to what some call a chemical imbalance in the brain. The concept of feelings from the heart exists from the day when Adam and Eve found themselves perfect for each other and called it love.
Love can be in terms and defined in different ways by different people but what is true is that it is a feeling not sure from where it emanates from (the heart or mind) but, it makes two individuals feel that they are perfect and made for each other.
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Worried about Your Body Part – Men Actually Like Them
Sunday, May 20th, 2012
Females always carry a physiological burden that they are not in good shape and spends hours in the gym or starve themselves to achieve their ideal shape. However, males and females think differently, what female don’t like about their bodies male can find it appealing to them.
Worried about Your Body Part – Men Actually Like Them
Females become extra careful about their body when they start looking for dates, dating someone for the first time or planning for their wedding. Check out the list that makes females lose their confidence while dating.
1. Legs – Females believe that they don’t have a decent pair of legs but, on the other hand men are obsessed about females legs and always find them sexy. So while going on date just go for pedicure and try to notice the reaction of your men.
2. Hands – Female hands are delicate and men want to have a good look at them and even hold them. Make sure you don’t hide them from your men on a date night. Men love a good nail art as much as women, get a glossy nail art with your favorite colors or if you know his favorite color try to match that too to get his attention.
3. Lips – Majority of the men observe female lip very early as they love to hear sweet and seductive voices of their female dating partner. Use the perfect tone of lipstick that goes well with your make. Apart from talking with your lips certainly make men crazy if you use them at places on his body.
4. Butt – Females are worried that they have a big butt. Men’s bodies by nature are angular and they love roundness of a female body. Men find the roundness of female bodies more seductive than the skinny appearance.
Comment in this article tells us what you think the other areas of the females body that men actually find more seductive.
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What are boundaries and how can it help us in our relationships?
Friday, May 18th, 2012
All of us have boundaries and to what extent we push these boundaries can define our own personality and the opinion of others. Let me give you a simple example, if we remain within the boundaries of our own town or city we are not experiencing the full measure of the different experiences of other cities or towns let alone other countries or cultures. We do this of our own volition and it can clearly define what boundaries we have set for our own selves and naturally affects the way we interact with people and in our own relationships.
What are boundaries and how can it help us in our relationships
In addition to the boundaries that we have set within ourselves which is usually determined by our own comfort zone, some of us open those boundaries with interactions with others. It may be due to financial constraints or some other that we simply cannot extend our boundaries in order to embody the full experiences of the unknown that often lift us higher. In such cases we have the human interaction that can give us a glimpse of the outer boundaries. We often find that older people through their wisdom can be very accommodating to our own needs and requirements in which case they have opened up their own boundaries through the interaction of their loved ones.
How do we go about extending our boundaries such that it enriches all of our lives? To a large extent, this has been done through the internet with the readily available information at our fingertips. It is important to remember that in addition to this vast array of knowledge which sparks of interest and passion, we have the capacity to reach out to people who have very new experiences than ourselves. This enables us to extend our own boundaries and enhance the quality of our lives and at the same time develop very likeable qualities perceived by other people.
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