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How would you react to a date that has a gun?
Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
We sometimes forget that living in a land of plenty that some things are borne out of necessity while other things have been culturally influenced. Many would agree that recent events in gun killings and where typically 43 persons die each day from gun violence here in the US that some serious actions need to be taken.
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The US is probably the only nation that as an amendment clause that gives everyone the right to bear arms. This is understandable in the days when lawlessness was rife and we did not have the protection of the state police that we have today. However, are guns really necessary these days? I have spoken to a few advocates of gun use and they always seem to say the same thing which our great great grandfathers did and that is we need protection in case anyone invades our property. The intent to kill for any reason is abhorrent in my opinion unless you fear for you own safety and life. How does this equate to someone else’s views especially if you are close or you are dating them.
There is no doubt that someones aggressive stance in acquiring and maintaining a gun reflects much in their personality. Is it really for the protection of the well being or is it an act of showing power. I believe in these modern times, it is the latter. If your date does possess a gun, you are likely to be dating a person who relishes power. On the other hand you may also be dating a person that has low self esteem and gets a boost from possessing firearms. Gun possession represents a symbolic power that most likely changes as soon as someone makes first use of it. Take for example the 1992 western movie ‘Unforgiven’ starring Clint Eastwood and Morgan Freeman. These two had-been gunslingers come across a young rookie who has never used a gun and shows off his prowess with the gun but goes into deep brooding as soon as he kills someone for the first time.
The use of firearms has to be for the right reasons, make sure you get the right answers from your date who does possess a gun.
Tags: date, dating partner, gun culture
Guys…Stylish Ways to Wear Scarf on Evening Date
Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Scarves are a fashion accessory for the stylish guy. When on an evening date wear your scarf not only to keep yourself warm but to add a style quotient to your personality by looping, twisting or wrapping the scarf. With a cold spell that all of us are having, this is a smart way to keep warm and show a bit of pizazz in the process.
Guys…Stylish Ways to Wear Scarf on Evening Date
Here are a few ways how to knot your scarf to impress her.
• Old School Loop Pull: Take a full length scarf, loop round the neck, and pull both ends from the loop to hang on your chest. Leave your jacket zip open
• Triangular Fold: Take a square scarf with fringes. Fold into half diagonally. Tie the two ends at the back of the neck with the triangular point facing down. Can be worn over a zipped up jacket
• Casual Shoulder Throw: Take a medium length scarf with cut ends. Fold it length-wise, wrap around the neck and toss one end over the shoulder
• Ascot Knot: Choose a rectangular, long scarf. Wrap round the neck with one end up to the waist. Cross this end over the shorter end, flip behind it and pull tight. Choose this for a formal dating evening
• Loose Wraparound: A long rectangular plain or printed scarf is to be used. Wrap around the neck with one end longer than the other. Drape the longer end around your neck and casually leave it across your chest
Knot your scarf to look stylish and not a boor to protect yourself from the winter. Walk away and come back to look at yourself in the mirror to adjust the length of the scarf. Yes walk back!
Dating Interracial Singles - 7 Things to Avoid Saying
Tuesday, January 15th, 2013
The world is shrinking as people are moving out from their own countries to other countries in pursuit of work or a better life. Each person is brought up in a different manner as per their religion, culture and tradition. Interracial dating has it own charm and excitement. The fascination for the other person is much higher as curiosity about the other person’s race, traditions and culture is always exciting and intriguing. When dating, bear in mind not to hurt or upset the other person unknowingly by mentioning something that is against their religion or culture. Allow them to talk about themselves since they will have a lot to say about the differences in cultures and you won’t step the line.
Dating Interracial Singles - 7 Things to Avoid Saying
Seven things to avoid saying when you choose an interracial date:
1. Don’t assume you know each others race, cultures and ethnic makeup
2. Don’t pretend to be culturally enlightened
3. Guys never make any sexual remark or suggestion. Every culture and religion holds sex in a different light. It may surely be on your mind but restrain yourself from talking about this
4. Complimenting a woman is dicey. Though every woman loves to hear how beautiful or attractive she is, it also may convey that you are interested only in her looks which puts you in the unworthy and unsophisticated category
5. Hey ladies, talk less about your self and ask more about him. It’s ridiculous but true that men will think you are intelligent
6. There is no way to tell your companion that your family will not approve of this relationship. Don’t ask each other out if the cultural rift is too large to overcome. Think for yourself and understand the repercussions.
7. Don’t discuss marriage, children or exes on first few dates and don’t tell lies
Tags: dating, Interracial Singles, relationship
How to Find a Super Date in 7 Days
Monday, January 14th, 2013
Super flirts find super dates. Flirting is an art which has to be polished to win a date with that cute gal or lad. Being well groomed with a smile and having a positive attitude is the first step to finding a super date. It is very easy to find a super date in 7 days if you can follow these few tips listed here.
• Learn a few tricks of being a good flirt. Prolong eye contact, play with your hair, cross and open your legs, touch your lips with your tongue or teeth. These actions convey a lot to the other person and out will pop your super date waiting for you to approach them.
How to Find a Super Date in 7 Days
• Be funny and interesting. Learn this by reading books and keeping your general awareness up to date
• Exercise and meditate daily to improve your body and mental attitude. Yes you can see the difference in seven day! Physical attraction helps to develop relationship faster and have more sexual chemistry
• Body language conveys more than words. Be relaxed and open to let the other person feel comfortable in your company. Read a handbook on body language and follow the does and don’ts or you may end up attracting the wrong person
• Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Follow the seven ‘C’s of good communication: complete, concise, consider, clear, concrete, courteous and correct. Focus on proper manners and nonsexual communication to the other person
• Join some online dating services
• Be sincere. Let there be no discrepancy between your words and actions. Sincerity is the foundation for a meaningful relationship and a good emotional connection
Tags: dream date, first date
Positive and Negative Signs after First Date
Sunday, January 13th, 2013
The first date is one of the most anxious moments in a single person’s life. It’s a threshold which one crosses with mixed emotions that are ruled by the heart as your logical mind takes a back seat. The excitement of going on a date lingers long after you are back home with our without a good night kiss. Don’t try to think and analyze that night as the mind and heart are jumbled up since you have high expectations for the date. Allow yourself eighteen hours before you start to analyze your date and the time spent together.
Understanding the positive and negative signs after the first date helps one to clear the mind of confusing thoughts and decide on continuing to date this person or not.
Positive Signs:
• She does not take out her cellphone even once when you are together
• He asks her if we can do another round of drinks if she can handle it
• He texts her the same night asking you got home okay
• She texts him the same night telling him she had a great time
Negative Signs:
• Evening ends abruptly with either of them saying that they need to leave or have to go to work early in the morning
• Consistently picking an argument with your date on almost every word mentioned
• Your date tells you that he/she has just broken up and there are other people who he/she is seeing
• No good bye hug/kiss and the date felt like an interview rather than a fun night out
These are a few common signs, analyze the more subtle ones and you can predict if there is going to be a second date with this person or not.
Tags: first date, positine date sign
