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There may be many reasons for this such as feeling of having tried but always unlucky in that department.

Other times we also see that having been rejected a few times by women may bruise our self-confidence and be very shy to ask again.

As many people know but do not grasp, is that with success comes following after many failures.

For some men who dismiss women as ‘difficult’ and not worthwhile do not appreciate the primeval instincts that exists in women as well as some other men.

If you look at it objectively, you will see that women are generally smaller and physically weaker than men and the biological instinct of men is to mate with women.

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The feeling of sexual desire and wanting is exceptionally strong in both sexes, particularly men in the early stages of dating and this has resulted in women having to keep the men always in check.

They need to prevent unnecessary advances by men to protect themselves against potentially sex hungry predators.

Their immediate reaction to any men, particularly strangers is that of ‘aloofness’ and reserve unless they know you somewhat.

There may be occasions when some women may greet you with a nice smile and seem very accommodating but these women generally are testing you out.

The initial stand-offish reaction by women can put off some men and they may easily give u and stop trying.

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The initial ‘cold’ nature of the women in the first instance is not a signal to stop trying, in fact throughout history woman generally land man by this initial pre-screening.

Woman are biologically wired to find a suitable mate and procreate and so they look for men who are capable of not just looking after her but also prepared to go the ‘long haul’ of taking care of the off springs and the many hurdles that will come in their way.

It is this reason why women are not always into looks and prefer the confident man who knows where he stands in life, stable, trustworthy and an action man.

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All this and more equates into the hidden body language that women unconsciously send out during a conversation.

Here is another very important point.

Woman, generally do not do the initial pursuing or ask a man for a date, it is usually the man and men MUST make the move first.

However, with body language we can check for subtle signals of ‘interest’ by the woman which are not easily portrayed in the actual conversation.

If you are simply paying attention to the conversation and ignoring the bigger picture of the body, eye, facial, arm, leg movements you are likely to miss out what she is really thinking.

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We will try to cover the aspects of reading body language from the approach to a woman you never met and all the way to them confirming of a strong interest in you.

When we are at a social gathering be it a bar, dinner, club etc. we have the opportunity to meet other people of the opposite sex and potentially the possibility of a date.

Who knows, this date can amount to something great or nothing at all but the first task is to always get those dates.

When you are at an event like this, make sure to be very observant of everything going around you, the people, the activities, the conversations, the groups etc.

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