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Why is communication is more important to us than it has ever been - Part 8
Monday, December 6th, 2010
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We are witnessing how some aspects of human interaction that is slowly being eroded in time and undermined by the technological advances in digital communication.
no amount of technology can replace a real meeting with people
Another factor that is slowly coming into the mainstream involves voice/video communication.
Surely, the face-to-face communication over the internet is a pretty good attempt of the real thing, right?
However, if you look at the history of this type of communication, it was a major hype as far back as late 1990s but yet to this day it still has not attained a strong footing in industry as anticipated.
There maybe many reasons for this including the specialist knowledge to using such devices but I believe at the end of the day the human contact is the only complete and vital form of communication.
Witness none of the slow down in people traveling for business, meeting families, vacations etc. despite the proliferation of such helpful devices.
Why is communication is more important to us than it has ever been - Part 9 >>>
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Why is communication is more important to us than it has ever been - Part 9
Monday, December 6th, 2010
<<< Why is communication is more important to us than it has ever been - Part 8
Our previous generations have all lived in a community where some of the marvels of modern technology were not available to them such as the ubiquitous TV and phone we now take for granted.
People in general interacted more within the community because they didn’t have these distractions.
Today, we operate in a self-driven entity like a ‘unit’ which governs how we work and play in our daily lives.
we are witnessing a proliferation of communication devices
As a result, we have less personal contact with other people and sometimes we shy away from that except in the case of say buying groceries, talking to doctors, lawyers etc.
However, this is also changing with time, where we are now shopping and buying online, getting business and personal advise online and even having our medical queries delivered online.
Some aspects of this change have been designed for convenience and they most certainly save time, ie. a trip to the shops, making an appointment etc. However, from a relationship point of view we need interact at the social level and continue to hone our social skills.
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The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 13
Friday, December 3rd, 2010
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You will find people crowded around different parts of the establishment, some next to the bar, some sitting down, some near the music area, dancing and chatting, while others are in the kitchen rummaging for food and drinks etc.
If you catch someone’s eyes, you want to know if it that person is interesting to you and whether to pursue this further.
You have to first establish whether this person is interested in YOU. In house parties, you can expect people to be polite and chat with you without the fear of being brushed off.
However, if you are at a public establishment such as a bar, you need to tread carefully.
Here, people can ignore you and turn you down very easily because there are no common point of reference.
This is where your knowledge of body language can come in very useful.
The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 14 >>>
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The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 14
Friday, December 3rd, 2010
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Let’s assume that you saw someone that you like and you want to gauge whether that person is interested in you or not and so you can go and chat to her.
You should start looking for tell tale signs in body language, movement & gestures, eye contact and other subtle signs.
Some of the cues of interest can be very obvious such as a look that is ‘longer than normal’ followed by a smile.
However, do not assume that a smile is a sure sign of interest, it could be a simple and polite gesture on her part only because your eyes met.
The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 15 >>>
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The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 15
Friday, December 3rd, 2010
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Again the social environment you are in is more reflective of this.
For example, if you are in a public bar, the smile can be construed as an interest because most women in that kind of venue will not go about smiling at every man, otherwise she may end up with a trail of men behind her.
Unless she likes that kind of attention, it isn’t normal in every day life.
In a house party where their maybe a common associate or friend, people especially women are more likely to drop their guards since it is considered a more ‘safer’ environment.
To be certain that there is genuine interest from the onlooker, you may just simply walk up to the individual and try your luck. But the point is, why bother if you can actually filter out those who are showing genuine interest in you.
The language of love - Body language and it’s potent power - part 16 >>>
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