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New Friendship Status - Friends with Benefit in Fashion
Wednesday, November 7th, 2012
“A person who walks into your world when the world walks out” was the definition of a friend. Gone are the days when a friend was defined as a person attached to another person by the emotions of just affection and respect. Today a friend is a person who fulfills your needs without any strings attached. This is what is referred to by friends with benefits.
With the fast pace of life, people are becoming more selfish and self-centered with no place for emotions in their relationships with friends. Today majority of the people search for people who will benefit them in someway or the other and call them as friends.
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‘Friends with benefit’ is a totally different mindset and probably is fast becoming a norm in the world of friendship. Most people look for friends who will fulfill some of their needs. Some develop friendship with a person for business or commercial gains while others build a relationship only to kill the weekend or have fun evenings drinking and partying with them.
Another category of people enter into a relationship for the pure sexual pleasures and physical fulfillment. These type of friends are increasing in numbers by the day. The western world followed this openly for sometime now and even the culturally orthodox nations are now open to free sexual relationship.
‘Friends with benefit’ for business purpose or simply for fun and party and is more easily acceptable by the human brain. When friends enter into a physical relationship only for the fun of it, one of the partners naturally gets hurt and the relationship ends on a sour note. The movie ‘Up in the Air’ with actor George Clooney in 2009, typically personifies these types of relationship. The human brain is wired to develop affection for the person with whom you share a physical relation. When one partner gets emotionally involved and ends up getting hurt can signal the end of the relationship.
Analyze your own self and then decide if your psyche can accept ‘friends with benefit’ relationship before you take the plunge.
Tags: emotions, Friends with Benefit, Friendship, relationship, sex
Outsourced Dating – Who Decides the Limit of Dating Surrogates
Wednesday, October 31st, 2012
Browsing through hundreds of online dating profiles, examining profile pictures, remembering which profile offers the match for you, whom to contact, what to write in your first message and plenty of such questions would quickly become frustrating if you don’t have the skills.
The next best thing you can do is to outsource it. Yes, you heard it right, and like other works where you ask someone else who has the appropriate skills and experience, why not on your online dating too!
Outsourcing is not a new concept and nor outsourcing to finding your romantic partner is alien too . There are companies making a profit out of this business and more and more jobs found on freelancer websites where you can find such a virtual assistance.
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There are celebrities who outsourced their dating to professional virtual dating agencies. In 2007 Tim Ferriss – NY Times best selling Author grabbed a lot of attention when we revealed the fact that he outsourced his dating to Diva.com.
From the top, everything looks rosy as you find a dating assistance that would do all the primary task of short listing the profiles, filtering messages and picking the right one that is a perfect match for you. They will help you in arranging the time, date, venue and even what you will wear. So what is next, will you hire their services to see how it feels on the first date or even how the kiss was. Will you able to know how the two of you can gel together and how chemistry with that person is?
Jumpdates cannot dispute the fact that there are singles that have benefited from services like these but we don’t know how successful they were when they started dating. Also, it can cost you a minimum of $360 to $1440 per month which can amount to a hefty debt if you are not lucky enough to find early dates that have have the potential for a good long-term match.
Reference Article - http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/36926587/ns/technology_and_science-tech_and_gadgets/t/no-time-date-online-outsource-it/#.UI_PhG_A9Co
Tags: dating surrogates, outsourced dating, romantic partner, Tim Ferriss, virtual dating agencies
How Lover becomes a player…It’s Not Easy
Thursday, October 4th, 2012
Most of us don’t like a player but there are few exceptions which are obvious. How can you like someone after breaking many hearts and sometimes leaving them in psychological turmoil? There are few who do like this just because of their Casanova image.
How Lover becomes a player…It Not Easy
However, there are one or more than characteristics that turn a lover to a player. Here are top reasons why someone becomes a player.
1. Multiple heart breaks – This is very much different from multiple fractures as this can certainly break you up as an individual. You love someone and find out that he or she is not into you. This is fine but what if this happens to you 10 times.
2. Childhood without Love – This is also a possibility, being a child he/she must have seen so many fights between their parents that lead to their divorce and that makes a player think that love don’t exist in the real world.
3. Love Materialist Life – One common characteristic that sets the player and lover apart is their love for money and it’s not easy to identify with. You can refer to them as conmon with lots of love in their heart and money in their mind.
4. Love Flesh not Feelings – For some reason physical attraction can overpower the inner beauty for many and it happens to many. You will find out there are people who started loving their partner for their perfect chemistry but soon only love to make sex without any real feelings.
Different players have different stories to share, we did compile a few here to make them aware what they should not be doing. Add your comments to this article and share your views why a lover becomes a player.
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Tags: casanova, conman, lover, player, romantic relationship
The Sweet Little things of Care in a Relationship…It Matters a Lot
Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012
In out last article we discussed about “Do you still think love needs a language?” which was quite appreciated by Jumpdates members and dating communities around the internet. On concluding that article we categorically stated that we tend to forget or care about the smaller things in life that give us bigger joys in the relationship.
The Sweet Little things of Care in a Relationship
Everyone knows the importance of taking care of a small thing that makes your romantic partner happy but it seems to be difficult to achieve most of the time. Here is Jumpdates research just for you to elevate your love life and make it much more enjoyable.
1. Go back to your childhood and play boards games or go cycling together.
2. Physical healing – You know your partner is tired after a long working day in the office. Try giving your partner a gentle message like rubbing her back or neck. More important is that your touch that quickly gets rid of stress from the body.
3. Emotional healing – Action speaks louder than words, do something that surprises your romantic partner. Go on an unexpected date, send a text message saying “I Love you” when he/she least expected it from you. Try to make your partner happy as this will make both of your emotional bond stronger.
4. Spend time together talking about your previous experience or plans of your future together. Get some healthy discussions going more often as that will help both of you to understand each other better. Most relationships takes a dip in this department as busy lifestyle don’t allow people to get cozy with each other often and it’s more of a one way communication rather than a discussion.
Hope this compilation has good points that couple needs to do to make their relationship blossom over the years. Contribute your comments to enhancing this article.
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