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Long distance Relationship - Why Not to Date an Indian? - Part 2
Sunday, March 10th, 2013
The closely knit social system creates tremendous pressure on the family members to adhere to the norms of the society and family. The house, business and property are all shared by the family members and passed on the son who is the heir. Status and respect in society is bigger than the individual person in India. Respect and face cannot be lost by going against the social norm. The girl is brought up in a manner where she is taught that the husband that the elders find for her is the right match and she has to live with him till her death no matter what. The girl cannot even think of having a relationship with any other man. Same applies to the guys, he cannot think of a relationship without the consent of the elders in the family as he may be thrown out of the family without a penny in his name.
Long distance Relationship - Why Not Date an Indian? - Part 2
The Indian society believes that the relationship between the man and the woman is very sacred. Indulging in a relationship with any other person than the spouse is punishable in the court of God. Being God fearing populous, most of them are hesitant to even talk to the opposite sex.
The court of law in India supports the woman against whom any sort of crime that is committed against her. One single complaint to the police made by the woman results in an arrest of the guy. Yes he can arrange for his bail and legal proceeding can begin. The judicial system delivers the judgment in years so you never know how much time and money you will have to spend to acquit yourself of a crime of asking a woman out. Simply asking a girl for a date or weekend together can result in her taking offence and filing a complaint for sexually harassment. Even if you have just asked her out, she refuses and you leave gives her the right to file a police complaint against you. The police here will immediately round you up and begin trial proceedings.
The Indian society is changing but not so rapidly. The culture and values are so strongly imbibed in the brains that it will take a lot many generations for this to change. Yes there are a few who have changed their thinking and are open to a long distance relationship which makes one wonder whether they do understand the consequences or are just doing it because other westerners are doing it. It is still not the right time to begin a long distance relationship with an Indian, but hopefully it will get there.
Tags: indian dating, indian singles
Long distance Relationship - Why Not to Date an Indian? - Part 1
Sunday, March 10th, 2013
India is the second most populated nation in the world and 50% of the population is below 35 year which increases the probability of finding a date for a long distance relationship. India is one of the fastest developing nations in the world with a very strong economy, stable government. The people there follow diverse cultures and traditions that make India a complex mix of people who live in complete harmony. Wow!! It would be very interesting to date an Indian is what we think, right? Well don’t, read to know why.
Long distance Relationship - Why Not Date an Indian? - Part 1
The art of living is the culture there. India has multiple religions and religious beliefs. Most of the families live here as a joint family. There is a hierarchy that is strictly followed in all societies. Family values are very important. India is a patriarchal society where parents or the elders in the house decide who their child should marry. This aspect is drilled into the brain right from childhood that parents will choose their life partner as they are the best judge of what is best for the child. Yes, an adult in India remains a child and the parents keeps monitoring the daughter’s life till she gets married (after which her husband does) and the son’s life till they are alive. Marriages are thought to be for a life time and divorce is looked down upon. It is a social stigma which gets a bad name for the family and ill-repute to the girl who is always blamed for a broken marriage as she is the one who has the courage to walk out of the relationship.
Arranged marriage is a tradition in India though love marriages have become quite common in metros cities. There seems to be a slight change in attitude in bigger cities but not in the smaller cities as yet. A long distance relationship just does not fit into the psyche of the Indians. You fall in love with the one you marry. There is love after marriage and not love before marriage. This is one of the major psychological barriers which make it difficult to develop a long distance relationship with an Indian.
Tags: indian dating, indian singles, long distance relationship
Myths and Facts about Women unfolded on International Women’s Day 2013
Friday, March 8th, 2013
Women are different but not strange. It is not that difficult to understand them. It is just that the women brain is wired differently than the male brain. This has been scientifically proven and major research is still going on across the world to understand and decipher the brain.
Read full articleAsk Celebrity to go out - Best read for Reporters
Thursday, March 7th, 2013
Media has always been the best way to project a celebrity. Good or bad publicity keeps the celebrity in the news. This task is now a specialized task where all the celebrities have created a special job for a personal reporter and journalist. The pressure to be in news is so great that a person is appointed especially to handle the media and keep afloat news of the celebrity. This has given prominence and major media attention direct to the reporter himself.
Ask Celebrity to go out - Best read for Reporters
The reporters constantly maintain a public profile of that celebrity which has led to them being identified with that celebrity and they themselves become celebrities in a way. Celebrities exhibit a glamorous lifestyle loaded with pomp and show. Being in such close proximity with the celebrity there are chances of either of them being swept of the feet or ‘losing heart’.
According to social psychologist Zick Rubin, love is characterized by attachment, caring and intimacy. The star and the reporter share a lot of time together, probably much more time that they spend with their own families or friends and the three characters of love are bound to develop. Though each person can feel the chemistry working it is a matter of ethical conflict to ask each other out or to express the emotion which is basically a deviation from being professional.
As reporters, one is very unsure of how to ask the celebrity out. Add some wit to your conversation and body language plays a very important role in any relationship. You as a reporter can understand the stress and pressure the celebrity goes through and you are the trash can for him/her to offload the pressures. The celebrity does have affection for you which is basically an attachment. A slightly free day is the right time to ask him/her to go out with you. Put it in a humorous manner like asking him/her with a smile of course “how about me being the envy of people when they publically a well dressed me with you today evening?” or “how about making more news when we are spotted together at the restaurant?”
The media and entertainment industry has merged to grow hand in hand. Manufacturing of celebrity as a brand is the responsibility of the media reporter. The reporter is awed by the person whom he/she has made into a celebrity. Enjoying an evening out will work as an incentive to work harder to up the image of the celebrity. So reporters understand the psychology and feel free to ask the celebrity out when you feel like living out your fantasy.
Tags: celebrity dating, reporter dating
Future Honeymoon destinations - Romantic?
Thursday, March 7th, 2013
At the space station the countdown begins 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 whhoosshhh….
This space shuttle is loaded with a honey moon couple who have chosen a destination that is literally out of this world! Yes the Red Planet. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. How about actually going to these planets for a honeymoon?
Future Honeymoon destinations - Romantic
Honeymoon destinations are chosen so as to offer an intriguing insight into your partners psyche though you have known him/her while you were dating. It’s the time you get to know each other even better, understand each other and spend most time in love making and not sight-seeing.
Are you adventurous enough to travel in an inflated habitat module of about 300 square feet? This will be the most exciting honey moon where you two will be in this enclosed space for almost 500 days. This will be a truly testing time for your love and understanding as there is no scope for either of you to walk out or go get some fresh air. If you can share this space happily then you can share life-times together!
Gift a Mars honeymoon to your beloved. Take off from Earth and reach within 70 miles of Mars in 227 days with the initial rocket firing. The gravitational pull of the Red Planet will work to boomerang the rocket back to the Earth and you will return back in 274 days.
A package for one night stay on the moon would be another exciting destination. Land on the moon, go for a romantic walk, and literally enjoy a kiss in the air whilst you float to take the next step. Yes by then there will be breathing equipment that will be directly injected into your lungs and your mouth will be free for various activities when on the moon surface. Neil Armstrong would not even have dreamt of this when he put his first step on the moon surface in 1969.
Don’t be skeptical, plan your honeymoon at one of these ‘out of the world destination’ and get to work immediately (unless you are going to inherit a fortune) to start earning and saving as these honeymoon will become possible after 2018 probably under Tito’s Mars Foundation.
