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Secret formula to success in online dating - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato - 5
Thursday, March 10th, 2011
Article Subject: Secret formula to success in online dating - cont.
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Instead of reading books on how to be successful in the dating game, you should be reading books on ‘how to run a business’ or the qualities of ’successful businesses’. The practices highlighted in those books directly correlates well with what an individual should do to improve themselves in the online dating game.
Ok, let’s get down to it, as you continue to read you will see this important correlation and analogy and it will become obvious and more clear to you.
Let us start with the basic premise of what the function of the business is and what it’s general aim is and why it needs to flourish, grow and survive….
businesses - what are they all about and how do they flourish and grow?
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Secret formula to success in online dating - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato - 4
Thursday, March 10th, 2011
Article Subject: Secret formula to success in online dating - cont.
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
The ‘holding onto’, that I mentioned in my previous post, as is applied to this case of success in online dating is in fact a complete and direct analogy in an area that most of us are already familiar with. If you are not, then the subject matter has been widely studied and many resources available for people to come up to speed. The subject matter that I am talking about is successful business and the reasons for their success.
The area of business is such a crucial component to our everyday living that many of us forget sometimes why businesses flourish and how they grow to be so successful. If you take the evidence of everything that makes a business successful then you have all the answers to being successful in online dating.
Of course, I am not just going to leave it at that. In the next section, I will talk more on this analogy and how it equates very well to the online dating scene. You will be in for a big surprise, read on…
we can learn some very valuable and extraordinary lessons from successful businesses
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Secret formula to success in online dating - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato - 3
Thursday, March 10th, 2011
Article Subject: Secret formula to success in online dating - cont.
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
So what is the secret formula to success in online dating…it’s very simple and I will explain so that it makes total sense to you.
Most people usually ‘open’ their eyes to something which they never conceived or imagined until a little light bulb goes off inside of their heads. Also, we have across situations where you can tell someone until you are blue in the face about something which he/she just doesn’t seem to get and surely enough, they never do! The light bulb has to go off inside of their heads.
It has been found that when people relate to other peoples experiences then the train of thought can trigger the light-bulb and people are more prone to learning and appreciating. This is the case of trying to master any subject in science, technology, special skills, cooking etc. where if the subject matter is taught in a way that is befitting to our current mindset and thoughts, then we will automatically make greater progress.
The same situation applies here, for in order to master the art of something new we need something that we can ‘hold’ onto and then, only then, can we get somewhere.
having a light bulb go off inside our head requires certain conditions
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Secret formula to success in online dating - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato - 2
Wednesday, March 9th, 2011
Article Subject: Success in online dating is very similar to how businesses are run - introduction cont.
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Continuing from what I was saying earlier, I immediately realized that the issues faced by men were in fact very personal to them and because they were not astute to ways they should conduct themselves on the online dating site, they became extremely frustrated.
While a very few men actually succeeded in getting favorable responses in the online dating scene, they were not able to convey the succinct information necessary to put the frustrated men at ease and give them new hope and inspiration.
Equally, a majority of the women knew what was expected from men when it came to messaging, however, no one in their group could also pin-point exactly or give reasonable answers to overcome their deep frustrations.
It became increasingly clear to me where the problems lay and I believe I have come up with some insightful answers that will shed light to this chasm which has eluded many of the men from succeeding in the online dating game.
Is there a secret formula to online dating? I believe there is
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Secret formula to success in online dating - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Wednesday, March 9th, 2011
Article Subject: Success in online dating is very similar to how businesses are run
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
I was reading intently many of the comments posted in one of OkCupid’s pages called “Exactly What To Say In A First Message” and I couldn’t help thinking how very similar it is to running a successful business.
It struck me that most of the comments were very personal opinions on the subject of getting responses from other members of the dating sites. The men were very negative on how they perceived their messages to be ‘ignored’, ‘rejected’ or ‘not read’ while women generally said the same thing about how to write good messages that can potentially lead to responses. However, nobody offered any singular response that made complete sense since they were all just expressing their own experiences and views.
is there a secret to online dating success?
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