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Online dating: Does everyone lie? - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Friday, February 25th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating: Does everyone lie?
Game Link: http://blogs.ajc.com/misadventures-in-atlanta/2011/02/25/online-dating-does-everyone-lie/?cxntfid=blogs_misadventures_in_atlanta
Rating: 3.0 (out of 5)
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Dr. Dato’s Brief:
This post has sparked off plenty of user comments and makes for interesting reading on this subject.
The topic of the post is about the recent incident where New York Congressman Chris Lee had a brief encounter with “Leggy Glamazon” whom he met through craigslist website. He had apparently lied about his age and the fact that he was married with children and on top of that he was a congressman.
The question addressed to users were “How can you tell if the person you are dating is actually single?”
Some of the comments are quite frank and also accounts of people’s experience with online dating sites. Everyone has much to say but at the end of the day, it still boils down to the same thing ie. how trusting you can be with another person based on their personality and character and would you want to be in an intimate relationship with that person.

trust is based on much effort on the part of individuals
Tags: dating personality, online dating conversations, online dating lies, trusting of individuals
Online Dating Website Starts Matchmaking Makeover - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Friday, February 25th, 2011
Article Subject: Online Dating Website Starts Matchmaking Makeover
Game Link: http://www.climbthenet.com/online-dating-website-starts-matchmaking-makeover/973
Rating: 2.8 (out of 5)
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Dr. Dato’s Brief:
This post mentions variations of online dating sites that some of our users are astute to but other may not. I will try to clarify the different systems that are used by the various dating sites out there.
Matching System
These types of dating sites usually have a very lengthy questionnaire that users have to fill in before they can register to their site. It’s not something you can skip because it is this very information that the dating sites will use to pass through their dating algorithms in order to match you to other members on the website. Such dating sites include eHarmony, eVow and a host of others.
Search System
These dating sites allow you to go through a very simplified registration process often takes just a few minutes before you can become a member of these sites. Once you are logged in to the dating site, you are free to browse and search for other members on the website. The search criteria can be by location, age, photo and other options which allows you to limit the returned search to your exact needs. Such dating sites include zoosk, bandoo and more.
Hybrid System
This type of dating system does both of the above. Usually the system will allow you to register fairly quick to the website and you can go to a section where you can also find your matches that has been delivered by the matching algorithm of the site. To get the best results you need to plugin as much information about yourself into the system through their pages like ‘Edit Profile’ or ‘Update Profile’. Such dating sites include Plentyoffish, Jumpdates, Datehookup and more. Some of these sites will deliver your matches via an emil such as Jumpdates.
Hopefully this will help our readers to appreciate the kind of technology that goes on behind the scenes. Watch this space for more information on this subject.

online dating algorithms are used by dating websites to give good matches
Tags: dating algorithms, hybrid dating sites, match dating site, matching algorithms, search dating site
Dr Dato’s briefs in Google’s new method of screening unique content
Friday, February 25th, 2011
Article Subject: Dr Dato’s briefs in Google’s new method of screening unique content
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
* A note to readers - this post may have some technical jargon, but informative stuff that you need to know, give it a try!
Google has just announced that it has improved it’s search algorithms to ensure that only unique content are pushed to the end user instead of ’scraped’ content that many websites utilize to push up their rankings. Scraping is a term used to copy content from another content provider and have it pushed through their own website so Google can pick up on it and give it some kind of relevancy.
I wanted to specifically mention this post, because it embodies some of my own thinking as I have been blogging for a short while now. I believe ‘content farm’ can be useful to provide a compiled set of links that are unique and useful to the end user for the area of interest, but the final goal has to be kept in mind. For example, it is fairly easy with some technical prowess and knowledge to create a customized ‘crawler’ and yes I mean your own unique crawler that will scan various sites on the internet looking for specific terms that you are interested in. I actually developed a crawler back in the 1990s when I was working in the area of search engine optimization (SEO).
So the end goal is what it is all about and Google has a very clear end goal to it’s work and very existence in that it provides the most relevant and useful information it possibly can to their end users. This means they will bypass all ‘black hat’ tactics used by web companies in order to rank their site without building unique content through themselves but rather scraping (copying & manipulating) content from other websites. Companies may be able to get away with this kind of tactics only for a short time until Google develops algorithms that will detect and bypass them altogether leaving those companies in an embarrassing position. I have actually seen this happen previously with link farm websites that were doing so well and almost overnight their business had folded.
I have been advocating unique content for as long as I can remember, although the path to this kind of content takes hard work and determination, you are not only providing a good service to your readers but at the same time keeping search engines very happy too. The long-term benefits to your website far outweighs the short-term gains.
Other good resources:
Search Engines are Matchmakers, Don’t Break Any Hearts
- a good post in the value of good ethics when it comes to ranking higher in search engines
Dr A Dato

Google algorithm improves on unique content filtration
Tags: google content farms, google new algorithms, google search engine, unique website content
5 Fundamental Truths of Online Dating - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Friday, February 25th, 2011
Article Subject: 5 Fundamental Truths of Online Dating
Article Link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/cristen-conger/online-dating-facts_b_823816.html
Article Rating: 3.0 (out of 5)
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Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Some good points on this post by Cristen Conger who is a staff writer for HowStuffWorks.com and talks about the few important points about online dating.
Her first point ‘It Works’ which she is saying that 10 million adult American couples met online in 2010 seems a little bit exaggerated and was based on a survey conducted by Stanford University on 4,002 adults. This small pool of adults is not sufficient enough to give a good representation of the facts that account for the dating habits of the entire American population.
I particularly agree on her fourth point which states “Beware the Hyperpersonal Effect” which means in other words not to get too carried away with someone you just met online and start ‘fantasizing about a blissful future together’. This could lead you to a big disappointment in the first person meeting but I would go far as to say that it could potentially put you off from online dating altogether.
She concludes nicely with the final point “Disappointment Happens a Lot” and is to be expected, so the advise is that online dating is only the first step in the dating process and it still has to go through the ‘real world’ dating process of meeting somebody, hanging out and hoping for the best. My advise is to filter through as many people that meet your criteria in the online dating site and start establishing an ‘online dating relationship’ with them until you are comfortable in meeting up with some of them.

following good online dating tips can help you get successful dates
Tags: dating persistence, hyperpersonal effect, online dating statistics, Online Dating Tips
Virtual dating game for fun - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Thursday, February 24th, 2011
Article Subject: Virtual dating game for fun
Game Link: http://teens.aol.com/games/red-virtual-date
Rating: 3.0 (out of 5)
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Dr. Dato’s Brief:
It’s surprising what you can find online these days.
I came across this virtual dating game as I was browsing for more interesting tit-bits in online dating and came across this online game called Virtual Date.
The idea behind this game is that you select the gender you are looking and you go through a virtual ‘conversation’ with them and at the end of the game, she (in my case) will let you know if she wants to date you or if she is going to see her grandmother.
When you hit play, you are presented with three personable virtual characters to choose from and the scene for your first date. I happen to pick the beach and of course the natural sound of the crashing waves on the beach could be heard in the background. The opening starts with a set of questions to choose from and ask the lady and if you pick a good one she will smile at you and ask a question, however if you get it wrong she will get quite upset.
It’s quite fun trying your hand in this, not sure if you can improve your dating skills though!
Tags: online dating conversation, virtual dating game, virtual online dates







