Blonde

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Good natured, funny, outgoing

Hi, My name is James, I live and work in Tulsa. I have three kids that I get every other weekend, well two of them, the other lives in CT with his mom. I work for Network Enhanced Training, we do training on computer applications and technical job roles. I make pretty good money. I have my own car and house. I have a little Rotty puppy named Sam who I adopted, I also have a ball python. I'm a very outgoing person with a pretty twisted sense of humor. I am a movie-a-holic, I like video games, float trips, science, nature, and anything I can learn something from. I have always read a lot and still do. I consider myself intelligent, but then don't we all. I moved back to Tulsa from CT in 2007, I was stationed up there in the Navy. I don't go out to the clubs as much I used to, not that I'm against it, I just rarely meet anyone who seems interesting for more than a night. I'm no angel, but I'm not abusive or mean. I would just like to meet anyone that would like to meet me, and possibly get in to a serious realationship. I have only had two of those in my entire life, the last one was nearly three years ago, so I don't carry a lot of emotional baggage. Well thanks for reading, and I respond to anyone who writes me, regardless of age, looks, kids, or weight. I don't really have any preconcieved notions about the kind of person I'm looking for. I will say this though. My youngest son is half black, if that bothers you, you're an idiot, period. I don't like liars, I tell the truth even when I shouldn't. It's gotten the crap kicked out me more times than a few. I would prefer someone with kids, but it really doesn't matter. I want a friend and a partner first, the other stuff comes with time. Also, someone in reasonably good shape, I don't care what anyone says, attraction starts at the physical level, to make like that's not true is juvenille, and dishonest. Also, I'm new to this, so if I message you and it violates some weird internet dating rule... sorry.