Gray

Blue

easy-going, laid-back, compassionate, romantic, good listener

My most romantic need is to be equal with my partner mentally. We want to have a lot in common, and to think in the same way. Being close physically is particularly important to me. I am a very sensual person, so I really need to cuddle up to my honey, to hold her hand, stroke her hair, and kiss her. I need to know we're committed to each other, and have a future together. I'm quite a relaxed person. I don't worry about things that happen day-to-day and don't over-react. This makes me very optimistic - I prefer to see situations and events as I want them to be rather than as they are, and see the bright side of any problems. I have a romantic modern view on love and relationships. I'm aware of differences we may have, but I don't feel we have to stick rigidly to a particular role. I like my partner to be a real woman but leave it up to her to express her femininity in the way that suits her best. I'm looking for a partner: Who appreciates the need for time spent one-to-one rather than being with lots of people. Who shares her feelings with me and feels good about me expressing mine. Who will spend a lot of time listening to me. Who's able to shake me up, and encourage me to be more upfront and assertive in the relationship. Who's happy with my direct, straight way of communicating. Who can think rationally. Who is as organized and conscientious as I am. Who sees our relationship as long-term. Who looks at the positive side of things and is optimistic. Who welcomes my emotions and expresses hers freely. Who is able to emotionally invest in the relationship. Who lets me cherish and take care of her. Who is happy to spend some of her free time doing things together. Who is happy to make joint plans for the future. Who shares my intellectual interests and is able to talk to me on a wide range of subjects. Who likes to be physically affectionate.