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Trying to figure out what women want is at best complicated, and, at worst, a never-ending puzzle. Even uber-thinker Stephen Hawking, who has solved many of the universe%u2019s mysteries, admitted the biggest mystery to him is women. Thankfully a new set of clues has just been published. The 2012 Harlequin Romance Report surveyed 1,500 single women aged 18-40 and found them to be very clear about what they want and don%u2019t want, at least when it comes to love. First the good news. What turns women on? In the report the most common male traits that women claim put their heart aflutter are %u201Ca sense of humor%u201D and a %u201Ckiller smile.%u201D This is perfect anthropological data. Cross-cultural studies show that women are attracted to mates based on intelligence, kindness and resource potential. A sense of humor is linked to intelligence, and a killer smile is an indicator of kindness. So, a crash course at The Improv or a visit to your local dentist might be just the thing to rev up your dating life. Now the not-so-easy-to-swallow news. What turns women off? According to the Harlequin study, four traits or behaviors were most often sited as deal breakers for women. The first was %u201Cmen who are too needy.%u201D The study didn%u2019t provide a definition of needy, but it%u2019s a term in our cultural lexicon that implies emotional dependency. Of course, women are wired to desire an emotionally intimate connection with a man, so on face value their rejection of %u201Cneediness%u201D sounds counterintuitive. But let%u2019s think about this. What kind of persistent %u201Cneeds%u201D do some men need satisfied? Time, money and sex, perhaps. If a dude becomes a time-sink, a purse-drain or a demanding sex machine, women run for the hills. Or maybe their definition of %u201Cneediness%u201D just implies insecurity. Right behind %u201Cneediness%u201D in the turnoff department was %u201Cmen who are addicted to their smartphones.%u201D Seriously, guys. PS ~Your welcome for the FREE Advice *wink !!!