Black

Hazel

Humble,respectful,kind and truthful...JUST!!!

First, the things a woman REALLY wants to know about a man; I am willing to admit when I am wrong, and be specific about it. I open doors (including car doors) for the woman in my life. I seek to be a gentleman. I am affectionate (and I don't mean just as a prelude to sex, tho that's nice too); I've been favorably compared to a big teddy bear--and that's pretty accurate. "I love you"s and kisses come readily to my lips, and like snugglebunnies, too. It's said that we need a MINIMUM of 4 hugs a day to be emotionally healthy, and I don't plan to settle for minimum in that area! I have a good sense of humor that can make a woman laugh (I understand this is considered pretty high-priority). I generally put the toilet seat down (not as a legalism, but as an expression of caring). I clean bathrooms. I am a good listener when focused. In fairness, I don't pick up on hints well (does any man?). So please do be up-front with me and don't expect me to guess. Fair? I love kids. On occasion, I can even relate to teenagers. I love SOME dogs--let me meet your dog. I DO love cats. I DO cook--it may not be as good as yours, but it IS edible. :-) (I hope you like onions.) I am a deep person. I do not DO "chemistry". If you want chemistry, I'll get you a chemistry set. :-) If you want a caring man who understands that "love" is a verb and is willing to do what it takes to make a relationship work, I'm your man. I believe that "chemistry", "soulmates" and all the other idols of modern relationship talk are created, not found. I also believe that "baggage" means "you're a living, genuine human bean", and that children are NOT baggage. I am a man who has been consciously learning from his previous mistakes in marriage and learning how to avoid repeating them. (I hope you're doing the same.) I am a one-woman man.