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I am looking for an Honest woman that i can trust!!

I am Rudy Spencer am from Ny Brooklyn, am an architect, 50yrs with a daughter of 15yrs,I have been described as intense, passionate, opinionated, but also willing to incorporate new thoughts and ideas into my thought processes. I love to laugh, and appreciate those things that make me do so. Humor is essential to negotiating the world around me. I can laugh at myself, especially myself. My friends characterize me as an especially attentive friend and am there when someone needs something. I pride myself on my sensitivity to others and being able to read situations and support any situation that comes my way. I am a thoughtful and careful listener and never feign interest in something if I am not engaged. I care deeply about my family, especially my married son, my friends, that are like family, and mean so very much to me, and yes, my animals. I guess you could say, "Must Love Cats", or at least appreciate their quirkiness!!! Big Kitty thinks that he is a dog (he grew up with one, and acts like one!), Gandolf on the other hand is relatively indifferent to others, expect me, but he is beautiful. I care deeply about education, politics, my profession, and what transpires in the world, my own community and the world community. Being indifferent to world situations be they local or global is not a path that I choose. Being well-informed is part of being a citizen in this complex world of ours. I love to cook and one of my happiest day's is when the new Bon Appetite comes, or I have discovered a new cookbook. Meals are ways to bring people together and to share something done with love and care.