self-confident, caring

Hi ! My name is Ray...I have been divorced for over 5 years and share custody of my 2 fantastic kids (17+14) on alternate weeks, although they are part of my life almost daily. I have used the time since my divorce to rediscover myself and what I am seeking in a relationship. My main qualities include my honesty, wit and charm, and I am fun to be with. I have be told that I have a very positive attitude and am very easy to talk to, people feel comfortable around me, I am very patient, and yes, extremely passionate, I have been told my kisses and blue eyes are addicting! And I also get great pleasure from giving pleasure. I do not go to bar's very often,especially alone,but enjoy having fun and dancing, (you won't have to twist my arm!). I enjoy many activities and am always willing totry someting new! I also enjoy quiet times cuddling up in front of the TV and watching a video.

Your ideal partner and the qualities you are looking for:-
I am seeking an attractive woman, slender to average build preferred, who desires those qualities in a man for casual dating first, then possibly more. Additional qualities that I find attractive include high self-esteem, young in spirit, being musically inclined is a plus! and yes, must be very passionate..(perhaps uninhibited at times). I know this a tall order,but feel that one must be willing to risk to find one's Eutopia! So... if you think you would enjoy getting to know someone like me, and are willing to get to know me.. drop me a line. Serious inquiries only.....Since I am the real deal along with best kept secret here in Springfield,Illinois!