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someone who is creative, sensitive, honest, affectionate, outgoing, intelligent, ambitious, generous

i believe that we all fit into one of two catagories. People who choose to be happy and people who choose to be miserable. I choose to be happy. Everyone's life has sorrow and disappointment but what shows our true character is how we deal with those sorrows and disapointments. We can choose to be defeated or to deal, grow and move on. I choose to be happy. To deal, grow and move on. I have opted to look to the future and enjoy the blessings that have and continue to come my way. I have a life and a family which means I have some bagage and the normal ups and downs, but I am not into the drama that seems to plauge so many these days. I have a good job, good health and a little piece of earth to take refuge in when I need to recharge. It's been quite a while since I have been part of the dating game. I'm not looking to just "hook up". Ultimately I am looking for a nice " women" who is interested in a real adult relationship that brings with it companionship, fun, loyalty, mutual support, and all that other good stuff. What I am is a down to earth, person with a good sense of humor who has taken enough time after his divorce to make sure he is ready to be emotionally healthy and ready to share his time with a women who chooses to be happy