caring, optimistic

I am the eternal optimist. I LOVE to laugh, and make others laugh. There isn't much in life that can make me down, unless I can't find a solution to make it better. I am a smoker but will quit in the next few weeks because I'm doing it as a birthday gift to myself. I am very affectionate, easy going, sexual, and love movies, popcorn, and diet coke. I have tons of candles, lingerie, and a few surprises to offer someone. No, I'm NOT a hermaphrodite! LOL I have two dreams to fulfill in the next couple of years. I've always wanted to skydive, and since I was preteen, I've always wanted to go to England, Scotland and Ireland. I'm sure once those are completed, I'll find new dreams to fill them.
My other personality traits:-
Please understand that I was having a very bad hair day since I got caught in a thunderstorm just before this pic was taken. LOL With my life I've always been adaptable but can't fight the weather or my hair! You have to be adaptable if you want to be happy! I love giving and receiving...sexually, emotionally, and in the just everyday mundane things in life. I can talk openly and honestly about anything. HEY, it's life and it's too short to waste beating around the bush, or wasting it wondering if...
Your ideal partner and the qualities you are looking for:-
I would love to find a man that smiles and laughs easily. Someone secure within his own skin and willing to share it with me. I want someone to cuddle with. I want to feel it's safe to share my secrets and dreams. I want someone to play with! I love to play Scrabble, and other games, and when the time is right just play with each other. Is that too graphic? Oh, heck, it's what I want.