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Hazel

I am Looking For Mrs RIght

I'm a happy man...even when I shouldn't be. I'm not one to get angry....I'd rather talk it out. I'm very easy going &; love to laugh...a bit mischievous at times. Not into drug users or heavy drinkers. I am entertained enough by the world around me so I have never needed or wanted "chemical enhancement". Would like to be friends first. That way there is nothing to loose &; if more develops, it makes for a strong foundation. When something unpleasant occurs in my life, I deal with it (usually with humor) &; move beyond it. I'm not interested in becoming a "survivor of divorce" or of anything else. It is what happened to me, however, it is NOT my name-tag. True, these things shape you...for the better if you let them. But they don't have to define you. I would like for my fella to share that outlook. I am a blast to be around according to friends &; family but I suppose my giddiness with life can be annoying to those who are not so content with their own life. Please be content with your life but still strive to do better. It would be nice to have someone to share all the cool things I am learning with. I need a happy lady......one with a good sense of humor &; someone who thinks of others first. You might have some "toys" (boats, cars etc...). That's fine. But they can't be all there is to life. It's about the people you care for. It's about being thankful for all that you have rather than feeling cheated for all that you don't have. I need to add something about the "being friends first" line. I can't become your friend from reading your profile, sending some emails back &; forth, & talking on the phone a few times. Those are just a few of the steps needed to get there. Spending time together is more important. If we have spent some time together &; the sparks are still flying after quite a few dates, then I might feel it is time to kiss &; take it further than friends. If you want to win my heart, be strong enough to not push this issue. This does not mean I am an