Brown

Hazel

Loyal, Patient, Good communicator, Romantic, got a backbone, attentive, ambitious, humorous

I say what's truly on my heart! I want the real deal and Dating in general especially online dating for that matter, has lost its value. I feel people today have no real sense of what love Is or means anymore?? They are to scared on many levels--Intimacy, well-being, lifestyle, personal and social insecurities, etc. Neither of Us really know each other yet, so until we truly give each other the chance to show each other what we're made of, we don't know a thing and have nothing solid to judge by. So are you to scared to know me? Or for me to really truly know you?? I'm a good guy. My friends would tell you I'm a keeper. Over all I am the guy nobody can honestly say bad things about. I am independent and secure with who I am, their is no worries from me in anyways. I am single coz "dating" sucks and I don't like wasting my time on worthless meaningless relationships. I got minor and simple expectations of a woman. So simple, even a cave woman could be it! Not that I want a Cave woman to message me, but you get my point. I WANT FRIENDS above all and possibly down the line a Relationship worth my time if it developed. But just like crawling before you can walk---You got be a friend before you can have a solid Relationship. And know each other above all! Takes time and effort, doesn't fix nor do itself. You got to really really work at it. And you get what you both equally put in it. Law of Attraction: Yes physical attraction is important at first but only goes so far. I don't like judgemental or shallow woman. My appearance changes upon my mood, I like suits but I still value my casual down earth apparel. If your one who thinks they know someone by a pic, than your definitely in that category and hope you figure it out on day. How I look doesn't make up who I am nor does the way I live my life. Theirs more behind the eyes and clothes and its skin deep straight to the Soul. Feel Me? Now, I am a active guy and value my health so if you cant "attempt" to run up the side of a hill with me more less, chances are we wont mix. I like active woman, don't expect a Model by any means, just able body and healthy. I take pride in myself the best way I can and expect her to as well. JUST BEING HONEST! What I want in a Relationship: I am not here for a booty call. I am not desperate for anything. I don't need a Momma or a Suga momma. Don't want a Materialistic woman. STAY AWAY PLEASE! I don't want a mother with a dozen kids running around... I don't mind kids, but someone with daddy issues NO. I don't want a woman who has Booty calls or Friends with benefits in their lives as that's the biggest turn-off to me! I don't want someone who's indecisive on serious and life alternating issues. I don't want a woman who is incapable of loving me or being loved. I don't want a woman who's a Victim or to guarded. I don't want a bubbly little girl as my partner (gotta be a mature woman!) I don't want a party animal or someone who needs other Male's attention in her life. I don't want a woman who cant handle thick & Thin stuff, who is flighty and bounces when sh*t hits the fan, and thinks its greener on the other side. And I don't want a woman who has to measure me up all the time to see if she can be with me. If these things are present, than keep trucking. I want the opposite of these traits listed. I want you to be you! I want a open-minded woman who has moral fiber and respect. Someone who lives life but not in a disrespectful manner. Someone whom distance isn't a factor. Someone who can cut back and laugh sunsets away with me about nothing. Someone who truly enjoys my company as I theirs. Be honest before we talk here and come correct or not at all. If I message you and your not interested, just say so. I'm a big boy and can handle it. But don't wait for me to just message you first...I might read profiles but I don't read minds, so speak up! and break the Ice for a change =) I'm not a online Re-trend who's either actually crazy, lazy bum, or burnt out on relationships. Don't be either. Born in Europe of Italian/Castilian(Spaniard) heritage, I don't have kids of my own, though I have helped raise them and wouldn't mind my own if possible, never been married and don't believe in divorce, got no criminal record Thank you Lord, College educated and self-employed, am a hard worker and ambitious in everything I put time into, people person and out-going but not a complete social butterfly, Loyal Christian who values his relationship with God, and even though I can cut loose and be a complete clown I am mature about myself and handle whatever I gotta do. I got a backbone and use it. I'm very chill and I get straight to the point majority the time, don't see a reason not to do so. Take me as I am, not what you want me to be! And that's more real than "I like walks on the beach and fuzzy kittens". I'm human, not a cyber bot person. So how I live in this world as a person, is no different than how I carry myself online. Otherwise this is it for you. Want to know more, don't be shy and ask me. Your not going to know otherwise.... ~ JOSE