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Benjamin_FrSX
(
FARGO
,North Dakota
,United States
)
Headline : The Smoker's Guide to Working Out and other contradictory notions....
Age : 49
Occupation : Management
Have Kids : Yes
Want Kids : Yes
Drinks : Never
Smokes : Regularly
Gender : Male
Height : 5'11"
Body Type : Athletic
Ethnicity : White/Caucasian
Religion : Non-Religious
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Has our society become a nation of consumers and less creators?
About Me
Hair Color :
Blonde
Eye Color :
Blue
I would describe myself as :
No nonsense, straightforward, original thinker with some odd ideas and unique philosophies...
About me and who I am looking for :
I'm and upfront and honest divorced father of two wonderful kids. My ex and I get along and keep the air drama free. I enjoy hanging out at home, movies (primarily documentaries and period pieces), working out, smoking cigars, traveling whenever possible, and American History.
I'm not the most exciting and fast -paced guy in the world but I don't mind. Haha. I like to relax and spend time with people. I make up for it with engaging conversation and by spending time casually hanging out with my friends.
I'm not looking for a party person or social butterfly but that doesn't mean that they're deal breakers. I'm just a casual, free-wheeling person who's already done the bars and clubs and just grew out of it.
I love to go out to movies, food, shopping, parks, and some ball games from time to time. I love new experiences and even re-visiting some old experiences as well.
I'm really looking for someone who's into the truth, being honest, self-respect, and personal integrity. I don't like figuring someone out so much as I enjoy asking honest questions and getting honest answers. I'm very talkative but I also love to listen and learn. I'm also very comfortable with myself and my points of view but I love an opportunity to learn something new and I love finding out when I'm wrong about something as being wrong only means that you've learned something new.
I'm interested in getting to know someone and seeing how that goes. I'm into the casual dating thing but I'm not one to shy away from a commitment if it feels right and I'm having fun. I'm not a person who needs to be into the same things as someone else to enjoy their company. I'm more a person who wants to meet someone who loves to talk, hang out without needing to be at a party, and travel with a good supply of coffee and tobacco.
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Interests
What I like to do for fun :
I love to travel. I usually hit places that have some kind of historical significance. Dinner and movies is always a great standby. The amount of fun I have is usually determined by the person I\'m with more that the activity we\'re doing in my book.
Activities I like :
TV Documentries
Lifestyle
Exercise Habits :
Several times a week or more
Eating Habits :
Eats healthy most of the time
About life style :
A typical day in the life...
Wake up at 7am. Take the kids to school and daycare. Head to work. Get done with work. Pick up the kids and head home for dinner, playtime and cartoons. Get the bath time done and the kids are in bed by 8:30pm. Then I turn on the PBS or Netflix and get my documentary on while I return some emails and work out. After that I relax, hang with a friend or two, read or write, and run around on the internet for awhile before I fall asleep with the t.v.
On PBS of course...
Then rinse and repeat.
An atypical day for me....
Get up at 10am on a day off. The kids are with the ex so I work out right away and then I head to the local store for my coffee. Come back home and straighten up the house so that I can relax for a bit while I read. Take a nap if time allows in the afternoon. Wake up and call a few friends to see if there's anything worth leaving the house for. If not, then I get online and turn on more educational t.v and "veg out".
Then there's vacation..etc
Background & Values
Languages I speak :
English
Siblings :
4
Political Standpoint :
Ultra progressive
Born Reverted :
Reverted
Background Values :
I like to leave this stuff to make the good conversations better but here's a summary...
Parents are divorced. Raised mostly by mom as a Lutheran but I ended up like dad and I'm not religious....though I am confirmed and I bring my children to Sunday School.
I was a bad kid growing up who's seen the error of (most of) his ways. Now I'm a homebody who loves to spend time with his kids. I work a lot but I don't overdo it. I believe in honesty and integrity. I believe that common sense needs a different name as it is not so "common". I believe in falling in love and monogamy.
Alongside of that I do have a cynical side and I'm a huge fan of black humor.
I am a romantic at heart but I'm not always the best at putting that into practice. I am a guy after all.
Most of all I believe that life is something that should be shared and enjoyed with others...in moderation. Always in moderation...lol.
Education & Career
Highest Level of Education :
High School
College Attended :
Fargo South High School, Woodrow Wilson
Degree(s):
Occupation :
Management
Occupation Description :
I'm a food and beverage director/asst. general manager at the largest pool hall in the country. We have 3 large private rooms and 28,000 square feet of pool and dining tables. I work about 50 hours a week and make a decent living. I've been in restaurants and food service my entire career. I started in the industry as a dishwasher and worked my way up. I don't always love what I do but I know that loving what you do all the time is fairly unrealistic. Doesn't mean that I don't dream though. Haha.
Annual Income :
USD 36,000-50,000
