Your boyfriend is the most charming guy you have met. You love his company and enjoy spending time with him. You start believing he is the gentleman of your dreams and you start looking forward to spending your life with him. Don’t get carried away! Pause to think when you visit his home for the first time. Observe the subtle signs to analyze if he is the same personality as you are dating. Remove the blind-fold of love from your eyes and look beyond.

How long have you known him? Did it take years for you to convince him to take you home? If yes then that is a dicey relationship. Keep your exit plan ready.

Things to Observe visiting boyfriend’s house for the first time

When you go to his house, if he is living with parents what is their body language when you arrive. Has he told them about you or are they just cordial and brush you off conveying that their son keeps bringing somebody to their home.

Has he made special efforts to arrange some flowers at home where you cannot miss noticing them? He has bought a bottle of the drink that you enjoy. If yes then it shows that he is interested in you as a person and not just for sex.

If he lives alone then observe how messy or unclean his home is. This will tell you a lot about his temperament no matter how well dressed and proper he is when he meets you outside.

Has he kept all gifts and stuff given by his ex-girlfriends? It means he is still not over her and simply using you as a punching bag for his emotions.

These few tell-tale signs are enough to tell you whether to continue this relationship or not. Visit his home with an open mind but keep an eye for the little signs to protect you from a heart-break and the feeling of being used.

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