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Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 12 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Tuesday, March 8th, 2011
Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 12
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
We have covered several important steps towards writing the best ‘ice-breakers’ to use in messaging other online dating profiles. Always keep in mind what the reaction of the other person would be if he/she were to read what you have written. Although, it’s not a good idea to make conclusive remarks about the outcome because you never know event the weirdest of messages can be read also!
However, you can avoid the common mistakes made by men when it comes to creating the best ‘opening’ line with another online profile.
In summary, scan the profile of the person you want to message, pick out salient points of the profile such as the women’s interests, hobbies and then say something towards that effect. Also, if possible, introduce yourself with something like “how are you doing today”, “how are you” or even a simple “hello”.
Best of luck!
Other resources:
Good etiquette when messaging others in online dating
Six Rules for Creating Good Messaging
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Online dating tips for women - Part 6 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating tips for women - Part 6
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
As discussed previously there is more to the message than meets the eye.
Make sure to study the profile carefully to look for discrepancies in dates, events that don’t match up etc. The other important thing that most women have to contend with is whether the man is married or single and they know some men will lie about their current status. Usually women can tell this by the time of the day they decide to chat and other excuses made for not turning up etc. because married persons have commitment to their family.
Before going on a date in person, try to use all the tools available on the website for you to get to know this person well enough to make that first date commitment with them.
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