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Things to Observe visiting boyfriend’s house for the first time
Friday, February 1st, 2013
Your boyfriend is the most charming guy you have met. You love his company and enjoy spending time with him. You start believing he is the gentleman of your dreams and you start looking forward to spending your life with him. Don’t get carried away! Pause to think when you visit his home for the first time. Observe the subtle signs to analyze if he is the same personality as you are dating. Remove the blind-fold of love from your eyes and look beyond.
How long have you known him? Did it take years for you to convince him to take you home? If yes then that is a dicey relationship. Keep your exit plan ready.
Things to Observe visiting boyfriend’s house for the first time
When you go to his house, if he is living with parents what is their body language when you arrive. Has he told them about you or are they just cordial and brush you off conveying that their son keeps bringing somebody to their home.
Has he made special efforts to arrange some flowers at home where you cannot miss noticing them? He has bought a bottle of the drink that you enjoy. If yes then it shows that he is interested in you as a person and not just for sex.
If he lives alone then observe how messy or unclean his home is. This will tell you a lot about his temperament no matter how well dressed and proper he is when he meets you outside.
Has he kept all gifts and stuff given by his ex-girlfriends? It means he is still not over her and simply using you as a punching bag for his emotions.
These few tell-tale signs are enough to tell you whether to continue this relationship or not. Visit his home with an open mind but keep an eye for the little signs to protect you from a heart-break and the feeling of being used.
Supercharge your Date with this Exercise - Part 2
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
The ability to think in the present time or in the zone has great benefits. One must do, be, do, be, do, be… as the famous physicist Amit Goswami explained in his documentary ‘The Quantum Activist’. Here, he refers to the practice of being in the moment and then taking action. For supercharging your date, you need to be in a state of ‘Being’ and then ‘Doing’. Follow these easy steps.
Let’s say you have a few hours before your date. Stop whatever you are doing and sit down in a quiet spot such as on a bed or a chair. Then close your eyes and try to push all thoughts out of your head, relax and take short deep breaths. Your heart should should slow down and once you have completely relaxed which could be as much as ten minutes, just maintain that state as long as you can. You should now be in a deep state of relaxation, this is the state where you are in your present moment in time. Hold that state for a bit longer and then wake up. If you have done this exercise correctly, you will be feel different to what you were feeling before the exercise. Now follow instinctively, whatever your mind conjures up. The thoughts and actions that follow will vary from one person to another. The important thing is that these thoughts emanate from a higher level of plane which is beyond anyone’s capacity of understanding. These thoughts can direct you to a greater and higher path that you could not have done by yourself. It is what Dr Wayne Dyer also calls the ‘Power of Intention’.
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Must Read Dating Advice for Women
Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
It is almost impossible to understand the mind of a criminal. Stray incidents of attacks do happen in the real dating world. Women are usually the target as they are looking for intimacy and do not look beyond the façade of the charming guy. Follow the dating advice for women and don’t become a victim of an assault that will shake you from the core of your very being.
Must Read Dating Advice for Women
Basic safety guidelines for women:
• Meet at a public place, use your own transportation
• Don’t assume the man is safe, follow your intuition and always inform your friend where and who are with
• Think beforehand and decide your limit for sexual/physical contact. Always go easy on drinks
• Don’t pour out all details. Give only your cell number and not residence number as one can easily get lots of personal information from where you are living
• Observe odd or abnormal behavior and be wary. Keep an exit plan ready to end that relationship when you feel uncomfortable
Hey women, when you are meeting new people it is important to look beyond the smaller things and think about the bigger issues like what you expect from a partner. It’s a jungle out there ladies, make your safety the top priority as only you are responsible for safety and well being.
Related - http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/stabbing-victim-sues-match-10-million-article-1.1247969
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