No doubt you have heard of the classical advice when it comes to dating and this ‘just be yourself’. There is more to these words then meets the eye and this is the inner voice that is inside all of us. Being yourself, implies that you are at your own being at the moment of time and the conversation that will naturally flow through you while you are with your dating partner. On the other hand, if the conversation is not going well as expected, this could also be a sign of a mismatch.

There are very good reasons for why our instincts and inner voice should be something to pay attention to and as many philosophers including the modern thinkers of today have also come to the realization of the importance of harnessing these powerful signals. Like the famous quantum activist Dr. Amit Goswami would say ‘be-do-be-do-be-do…’.

In essence being yourself and then doing follows the natural invisible hidden forces that moves all of us in a particular direction. By tapping into this energy allows us to accomplish higher goals, something which many modern philosophers believe today. As a consequence of this state of mind, we also happen to tap into a far more underlying force that can guide us in a way that we never thought possible. If we are awake to this mode, we also have continued signals coming via an ‘inner voice’ which steers us in the right path and one that ultimately benefit us.

The ‘inner voice’ will point out facts that are not obvious but they instinctively pop into your head of some particular event or even a flag that warns us of the dangers ahead. In dating and from our previous discussion on ‘conversation and assertion..’ relies indirectly on this important fact. You inevitably find some signals which may be opposite and contrary to your listener’s thoughts but they are all designed to benefit or protect you and one has a duty to act upon them. When you come across feelings such as this, try to nurture it and pay attention and see if you should take more actions than usual as a result of it.