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Some will not talk about it and deal with this personal development on their own and others will experiment with harmless masturbation, while others will directly interact with the opposite sex to fulfill their fantasies.

some kids bottle up their inner feelings and thoughts

The accessibility of the internet now allows any individual no matter what age to tap into this widespread material very easily.

It is not known what the effects of such early exposure at this age have on the child as they grow up.

For most of us the exposure of this material does not manifest into anything but pure indulgence of fantasy and play fullness and a form of escapism from the real world.

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It can be argued that the sexual fantasies we often indulge in, is a necessary and an essential part of a healthy growth.

Providing that we can clearly see the two divisions as they really are, then it does not pose a problem.

sex and fantasy can be powerful emotions that can shape our real lives

The merger of the two is the likely cause of some sexual offenders.

The capacity of the mind is so great that our thinking can stretch way beyond our reality.

After all, it is the mind that has manifested all the worldly gains we see today and along with that, some of the ‘evils’.

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There are proponents out there who would also argue that the exposure of this material can have a damaging effect on individuals who later go on into a life of sexual crime.

how does belief, principles, fantasies shape our long term relationship?

Some religious believers emphatically rule out any form of sexual portrayal as abhorrent and sinful but this does not address the underlying issues we all have as individuals on this subject.

We have all felt the necessity to ‘hide’ our inner feelings as it would be construed as damaging or in conflict with the real world.

Unfortunately these feelings are so personal to us that it would be dangerous to think that we can completely dismiss it entirely from our heads.

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We are all to a certain extent born sexual and we continue to experience these strong feelings until our death.

The way we deal with it is important and how this manifests into the real world.

fantasy and reality should be kept distinct from each other

Some people are able to retain these strong feelings and are perfectly happy to go through their daily lifves without having any expectations from their sexual partner.

Others need to liberate these feelings in the real world and some men will be in constant pursuit of sexual gratification.

For women the story is slightly different and they are considered more monogamous than men and can be very comfortable with one sexual relationship.

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Women’s needs are different to men and they are much more inclined to create a bond with the man and openly talk about this subject in great detail.

However, some women are often troubled to find that in addition to their partner having sexual needs on them they also seek pleasure elsewhere be it in the form of another partner or from pornography.

both men and women perceive sex differently

Because of the different biological wiring of men and women, many people come to be comfortable in these differences.

Although some women will find it intolerable for a man to stray with another woman they can be more forgiving if the relationship is just fleeting rather than long term.

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