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College girls are now looking for dates with financially established men
Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012
A recent website designed for middle-age men or ‘sugar daddies’ made headline news in UK with the type of recruits it was attracting. Apparently college girls or undergraduates of many famous UK universities have signed up for this service. Their reasoning..the high cost of school fees and an uncertain future in this harsh economic times. Many who have signed up are looking for stable and established gents to pair up with and to provide them with a secure future.
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The whole story almost sounds like a fairy story but now in the modern times the prince does not come galloping in shining armor but more with the tinge of coins. Most young men that are graduating today will have to pay off their big school fees and then on top of that establish their castle before seeking out their fair maidens. Unfortunately, these fair maidens cannot wait that long and a majority of their problems are solved if they go directly to the kings of the castle.
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Times have changed and we are much more likely to see a new shift in the way men and women date. Wealthy nations inevitably have a high cost of living and place much demands on its citizen in terms of the earning power required for survival. The skilled workforce are being shifted to other parts of the globe where a labor force is readily available and only highly skilled jobs are the ones with a better prospect and future. Even then, it will take a professional to acquire sufficient wealth before he/she can enjoy a conducive family life without the headaches of financial worries.
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It is not surprising then, that many young women are already gazing into the future with a view to a stable future in light of the modern times. Apart from the financial stability enjoyed in this type of relationship, younger women can also expect a more mature person with the package. Coupled with the fact that children would be the primary focus of their relationship, she can be assured that their offsprings will also have a good education and an upbringing in society. This thinking in many ways is almost synonymous with the biological and evolutionary makeup of women since the dawn of time.
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Pardon my French, we are all English here! - Part 2
Sunday, April 29th, 2012
Pardon my French, we are all English here! - Part 1
Here in the USA, language is often classed as not the eloquent delivery of it but rather its meaning and purpose. However, the way it’s spoken and delivery of the message can have its importance especially when you are trying to influence the many. In short, language in its purest form is to convey a sense of purpose and meaning to the recipient and in the areas of courtship and dating has special significance.
We have heard the same advice time and time again with regards to preparing for a date and that is to be yourself. However, for those who feel they don’t have the ‘gift of the gab’ may feel that communication may mar the outcome of the date. That is not entirely true and you need to be weighing up the eventful date as you traverse through it and not before. What this means, is that don’t make overbearing decisions as to the outcome of the date and you need to go with the flow. You may find that your other dating partner has similar qualms as yourself, or he/she is very much into you, you just don’t know. These will enable you to be a better communicator and take the lead and show yourself to be a true charismatic character in the moment of time.
In the language of love, sometimes language itself is not always needed. You may find that your partner is perfectly capable of doing many things that you were not able to do and vice versa. The communication part of language can come in many forms and disguises and one needs to be aware of this and the relationship will flourish without you even knowing it.
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The ‘Happiness Factor’ in Dating
Thursday, April 26th, 2012
Have you ever thought about the frequency of dates you are having with your dating partner? This could have much bearing on your relationship and give you deep insights into your partner’s thoughts and values. Prior to the dates you were most likely a singleton with tons of time in your hands and now all of a sudden you are pulled into a whirlwind of romantic dates.
Most of us will not consider the sudden transition that often takes place especially if the partner you are dating is to your liking and looks like long-term potential. You may argue that this could be in some ways good or bad but the fact is that we have a strict ‘happiness factor’ in our lives that moves us in certain directions. The problem is that along with the high ‘happiness factor’ we could also land with a thud when something in the future goes out of tune or whack and when we are least prepared.
Again, the question is can we always rely on our basic instincts and judgements to carry us forwards or should we be aware of the rapid changes that is happening all around us. It is a good question and one that needs careful thought since the ‘happiness factor’ is at play here. The irony of this issue is that the ‘happiness factor’ can often be in conflict with your sensory perceptions of instinct that is used for survival factors. It is probably the main culprit in our conflicting opinions and views when it comes to gender differences (please read our previous post on this hot topic).
Without being too serious and making your day a dull one, lets end the post on a happy note. The ‘happiness factor’ is a prime driving force in all of us, but just remember that in the same way when you step onto the road and suddenly a car blasts past you, your instinct takes over and saves your life. Your instincts will be a better judge of steering you through the maze of dangers and pitfalls and to keep and maintain your ‘happiness factor’ at an elevated high.
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Jumpdates.com a 12 year old veteran of the online dating industry shows strong growth in 2012
Thursday, April 26th, 2012
Jumpdates.com, a 100% free dating site which was launched in 2001 as the early pioneers of the online dating industry has worked tirelessly in the last two years to provide a significant boost to its member base. In addition to its interesting and unique posts on its blog which attracts many new readers, Jumpdates has tripled the rate of membership signups since January 2011.
The team behind Jumpdates.com would like to thank the many members who have joined and provided us with valuable feedback and comments. We continue to strive for greater goals and to meet the demanding needs of the modern day user who are looking for dating partners with a view to a long-term relationship and marriage.
Some of the changes implemented on the dating site include tighter new measures to prevent scammers signing up to the site. Unfortunately, some do slip through the cracks but we have our own members who police the site and inform us of any potentially suspicious profiles which we take action immediately. The online dating experience should always be a pleasure for our users and it is one of our utmost goals to see that our members truly have a good experience on our site and find their potential date.
2012 hopes to be a very good year for us where we intend to keep on the same track and boost membership growth without compromising on quality and user experience. We hope you will become a trusted member of our Jumpdates (Jump for Joy) community and find your ideal match. Please send us any comments and feedback, we would love to hear from you.
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Relationship is a two way thing - perk it up with some exciting tips
Tuesday, April 24th, 2012
The first date is an important one for many of us but yet we limit the number of venues or events for this eventful time. For example, we usually do one of these things; movies, dinner date, walk in the park or sit down at a coffee house. Although, there is absolutely nothing wrong with these type of events especially if you are meeting up for the first time, there is a whole world of possibilities that you could be missing out and enhance your relationship.
Remember not to take dating events as simply just another event, think of it as a way of getting intimately close to your dating partner. What makes your partner tick, what makes you tick and what events could bring out this information and make the whole event fun and a memorable one. Of course, it has been said that if couples do like each other, the actual event or venue becomes secondary to their own presence with each other. This may be true, but if you think about it, how well do you know this person, you may have a tingling sensation when you are with this person but is that enough?
The natural design for couples dating is to use a combination of their heads and heart when it comes to summing up each other. If the focus is too much on the feelings then we could be in for a torrential roller coaster of a ride where we literally fall off from the other end! If we keep our feelings in check and make the practicalities of life as an important factor in determining the partner’s suitability then we have a balanced approach and to all intents and purposes this is probably the correct approach.
Think about it, if you are finding frivolously wandering through life going aimlessly from one partner to another, then something is amiss. Either you have your standards way up high and you need to appreciate the real facts in life and perhaps focus more on your partner rather than what you want. If you have a lack of partners, this could be due to the lack of communication between the opposite sex and not being able to go deep enough with anyone about your own personal feelings and thoughts.
Whatever the reasons could be, it is always a good idea to take the emphasis away from ‘you’ and concentrate on the greater and broader things in life that awaits you. Next time you go out on a date, try to think outside of the box and instead of what you can get out of it, see what you can give back.
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