Posts Tagged ‘relationship’
How to Date Multiple Boyfriends at the Same Time
Thursday, January 10th, 2013
The mind always looks out for a variety as it is in pursuit of internal satisfaction and happiness. Variety is the spice of life! This holds true in relationships as well since time is at a premium and it can come and go very fast. Indian Kings had multiple wives who lived together in complete harmony. The scenario today seems to be moving towards the polygamist trend. This definitely strains and breaks relationship.
With women becoming more informed and outgoing, it is not surprising that she needs multiple boyfriends for mental satisfaction. With so many dating sites in the world wide web, the world has shrunk to the size of the screen. Each person has multiple interests so curiosity for multiple relationships is gaining priority. Association with multiple people has become a need and a necessity.
Here are a few tips to handle multiple boyfriends at the same time-
• Pretend to be the damsel in distress and get all the sympathy from the guys you want.
• Always be polite with all these guys and be naive enough to deny any relationship you share with other guys.
• Guys have a habit of checking out the cell phone as they feel most insecure. Save names of your boyfriends by different names so he will never know who spoke or texted you.
• Don’t ever compare (even in your mind) the qualities and attitudes of the boyfriends as that will surely ruin your relationship.
• Guys find outgoing, suave girls more exciting. Flaunt all that you have and be the apple of their eyes and others to envy.
Tags: How to Date, Multiple Boyfriends, Polygamist Relationships, relationship
5 things you need to know about your date to get you off to a flying start
Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
1. Establish trust
There is no point in pursuing a relationship if you cannot be honest with the other person. This is why it’s vitally important to be as truthful as possible on your dating profile. You don’t need to resort to those techniques if you think outside the box and look into how creative you can be. Look at our many previous blog posts on this subject. At this stage you also want your guard up and men can learn from the women on instinctual matters. Observing your dating partner and listening to your inner voice can tell you a lot about your partner and whether they are hiding something that will be important to you. The funny thing about relationships are that what one thinks looks bad on the dating partner is in fact not an issue at all, so please keep this in mind.
2. Listens to you
Pay attention whether your partner is really listening to you. This is important as you can expect to spend more time with this person. Remember your time is just as important as theirs and it’s possible that some people are quiet and will allow the other person to speak more. If you do fall into this category, look for your partner to pause for a moment and to ask you a question.
3. Things in common
Generally its a good idea for you and your dating partner to have some things in common but it doesn’t have to be exactly this way. Don’t feel afraid if their interests are far removed from your own because the common thread that bonds people together are usually more deeper than this. The qualities of trust, ability to listen, empathy for the other person and an affection for each other are the ingredients for a good long-term relationship.
4. Be attracted to each other
Naturally attraction plays an important part in a relationship, without this there will be no cohesion or interest in pursuing the date beyond the first meeting. However, don’t base your relationship entirely on looks alone since the personality and character of your date will determine how you both get along.
5. Do they make you feel good
If you listen to your inner voice, you may have a nice feeling inside of you. This would be a good indicator that you are both on common ground and there is a good chance of success in this new pairing.
This is not the complete list to look for when you are dating for the first time but they are important points to keep in mind during your first date. Send us some of your own thoughts and ideas on this valuable topic and tell us how first time daters can benefit.
Tags: dating partner, relationship
ISO Certified Dating Techniques for Single Men
Saturday, January 5th, 2013
QMS (quality management system) is needed for quality management whether you are into business or you are dating. QMS assures excellent results and achieving the goals as almost predicted.
Female’s ideal male is ‘James Bond’. He has positive body language, well dressed, well built, suave and totally appealing to the female psychology. Every woman wants to date this kind of an alpha male. Men on the other hand love to flirt, go dating and spend quality time with beautiful and intelligent women but run away from commitment.
Dating has become an intricate process which requires a quality management system (QMS) in place for excellence in performance. PDCA is the management method that should be applied in a relationship for continuous improvement.
Plan-Do-Check-Act are the mantra for success in dating. The alpha male is aware that women get weak in the knees simply in his presence. Flirting and dating gives him a high and he is aware of his dislike for commitment. Follow PDCA!
Plan- decides the objective (dating her) and the expected results. Make a plan or process to achieve these results.
Do-collect the data required (her likes and interests) and implement that plan so as to achieve the goal (of dating her).
Check- compares the actual results against the expected results. Whether she was floored enough by you as per your expectation or way below when you went on a date.
Act- if she is truly interested you and you feel she is the soul mate you are searching for, adjust your actions. Analyze the cause of the variance in the planned and actual results. Alter your plan and improve it with finer detailing.
Follow this ISO certified dating technique for men and let her swoon over you.
Tags: alpha male, commitment, ISO certified dating, relationship, single women