In the previous blog post, I mentioned at the end that we should change our inner potential in order to perceive the outside world in a different way. This is a profound statement and applies to everything we do and in particular when seeking out our potential mates from all those online free dating sites. This principle can be exercised in such a manner that some people may construe the whole thing to be a mere manifestation of what we want and many would like to debunk this kind of methods. However, in actual practice it has its limitations and benefits and we need to be aware of this.

Like all things we need to take everything with a pinch of salt, you could say that some take the high road and others take the low road. There is a balance and this balance is like tuning into a simple harmonic frequency or motion which can place you in a position of much power.

There are numerous advice and relationship blogs each advocating to a method that will work for you when you looking for dates on the online dating sites world, but none offers the ‘process of thinking’ that can get you there. We are all wired to think in a particular way and depending on some peoples low or high self-esteem we can be swayed by other people’s decisions or what we read. This is a great power that the media wields over the common man and is in fact practiced everyday by the savvy individual plucking out its victim for their own needs.

Before you become ‘influenced’ by the wordage, images and all the claims made by many dating sites, ask yourself this. “I am looking for great dates that I can find online”. Keep it simple and don’t fret too much how it is going to happen. Go back to whatever you were doing and wait for some thoughts and ideas to pop into your head and then act. It is advice handed down through generations by many school teachers to their students when they are having difficulty in solving something. “Take a break and come back to it later”. Almost always we come back with some kind of answers almost like magic and dare I say a mysterious type of manifestation.

Free dating sites or dating websites do not have to come across all that confusing or elusive, just try it a little at a time and let the intangible forces around you take shape and come up with the answers.