Article Subject: Good ice-breakers for online singles and personals - Part 4

Dr. Dato’s Brief:

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Ok, so you had a few minutes to scan the profile but now what?

What should be happening as you were scanning the profile were interesting tit-bits in the profile that interested you and made you pay attention apart from just the profile picture.

The ‘interesting pieces’ that you gleaned from the profile could be anything ie. the person is into needlework, loves traveling, has a crazy job etc. Your next task is to formulate a very simple message that highlights those points and it doesn’t have to be anything earth shattering just simple words to convey an acceptable message.

Remember the analogy, where your best approach to a woman you have never met would be to say something very simple and nothing extraordinary, which usually works.

Before we move to the next set of tips, lets digress for a moment and discuss what happens on the other end ie. the lady that is going to read your message. This is a good visualization process to go through as it will help you better shape your message.

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simplicity applies to the real world also, people can better communicate with each other