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Some people engage with other people very quickly while others are restrained.

good self confidence is a must for flirtation

To be a good flirter there should be no reservations on the part of the flirter and the person needs to have good self-confidence.

He/she must be happy doing it and be prepared for some initial failures at first.

The confident and outgoing ability that emanates from the flirter is what attracts other people. People are more willing to talk you because of these qualities.

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To be an accomplished flirter, you need to adopt the following traits and continue to improve upon them;

understanding body language is key to flirtation

- Take initiative, be confident and proactive
- Need to be always alert in reading accurate signals from the other person
- Need to be adapt in reading body language
- Be brash (but not overly so)
- Get rid of any baggage in your discussion and sound positive
- Feel yourself in control
- Enjoy doing it

In the next sections, we will continue to discuss the finer details of flirtation and how it can change your life.

To be continued…