Whether you are new to using online dating sites or a veteran you ought to know that you don’t make dates a job. After all dating is fun and if you try to overly impress someone or feel the need to work very hard at pleasing your date then you are only stressing yourself out and positively taking out all the enjoyment of dating. There are a few secrets to help you enjoy a rewarding experience when dating online. They are just a few lessons that some singles haven’t learned yet. To begin with, you need to be original and confident without being cocky. This is of course something for the men. Guys, you may have guessed that women have the upper hand when it comes to online dating. This lies from the fact that there are many more guys than women on dating sites.

So, when I say don’t make dates a job I also mean you need to make the right approach. Your first email must be brief but provide enough information about yourself. No one liners that are usually suggestions such as ‘I liked your profile and am interested in taking things further.’ This won’t go down well women who are serious about dating. In all probability, every woman will receive hundreds of these. Now, here is another task that you need to accomplish with finesse. Make her aware that you have taken the time to read her profile so that she knows you aren’t someone just scouting around for some temporary thrills.