Older women who show interest in dating younger men for physical intimacy are called ‘cougars’. This is a changing trend which is being widely accepted world-wide. A lot of Hollywood celebrities are the trend-setters. Cougars are classified into two categories, alpha and beta. The alpha cougars are sophisticated, intelligent and looking for sexual empowerment. The beta cougars are the ones who look for someone who can make them feel good about themselves.

Wine develops its flavor and identity upon maturing, the same is true with most women. Men find it more than exciting to date an alpha cougar. The newness of the relationship is exciting if both discover what they want before indulging in this relationship.

Exciting side of cougar dating

Do not focus on age lest it becomes a barrier. Live the moment and keep the mind open for new ideas to make the relationship fun. Age is all in the mind, a not so young, energetic, enthusiastic woman can be a great companion for a guy who maybe even two decades younger than her. Sophistication will keep the guy chasing you for more.

Feel free to express your emotions. Compliment him on his achievement which will make him feel good. Remember you are not his mother so don’t play mom. Being honest with each other builds a stronger foundation of the relationship which gives security to both and adds to the excitement of spending time together.

Being with an emotionally matured lady is very exciting for the younger guy in addition to her being financially secure as well. The well dressed, good looking woman who maintains herself with regular exercise is desirable for any man. This relaxes the brain and secretes the ‘feel good hormone’ for both.

Physical intimacy is an important aspect of cougar dating, going to classy restaurants to wine and dine works wonders for the relationship. Add excitement by trying stuff she has never done before which could be skydiving, moonlight walk or golfing. Have a few drinks together to kill the nervousness and enjoy some dancing together or go on a holiday to make it more exciting.

Dating for fun with no strings attached makes cougar dating most exciting and kind of sought after. With lot of online dating sites devoting a section to ‘cougar dating’ it is easy to find the younger guy you are looking for. Uncork the champagne, feed him his favorite dessert, wear the sexy outfit, and show him how much you appreciate him which makes the relations most exciting and wonderful.